(This blog, which I think really brings out the richness of the 10^th commandment, was written by our dear friend R. Herbert, his pen name. He is an ordained minister and writes articles and blogs. Enjoy! – Philip Shields.)

The Ten Commandments are fascinating from many perspectives, some of which we may not be aware of, no matter how familiar we may be with these laws.   A good example of this is the fact that each commandment is not only instructive in its obvious meaning and application, but many of the commandments have a “second side” – a different aspect of the principle they teach that is equally valid yet often overlooked.

Take the tenth commandment – “You shall not covet…” (Exodus 20:17), which we usually understand as wrongful desire of something that is not ours. This is the sense of the principle that Jesus combined with the commandment against adultery – saying “anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart” Matthew 5:28).  Understood this way, coveting applies to our desire for things that we do not have – someone else’s, house, mate, or whatever.

But there is another aspect to coveting that is almost the exact opposite of wanting something belonging to someone else: being unwilling to let go of something that is ours.   An Old Testament example of this is found in the story of Nabal, the rich but unthankful and ungiving man who refused to give David and his men food after they had helped him (1 Samuel 25). Although he is described as being “very rich,” Nabal would not part with any of his property and is said to have suffered a heart attack when he found out that his wife had given away some of his ample food supplies.

In the New Testament we have a similar story of the rich you man who said he would follow Christ, but who turned away when Jesus suggested he give what was his to those in need.  Another famous New Testament example, of course, is that of Ananias and Sapphira, in Acts 5:1-11, which tells of a couple who, after selling a piece of property they said they were giving to the church, lied about the amount they gave because they wanted to keep some back. 

In all these stories, and many more in the Bible, we find examples of individuals who had more than they needed, yet who could not bring themselves to give away even part of what was theirs. This is simply the “reverse side” of coveting – of wrongfully wanting what is ours to the point that we will not or cannot give it even to those in need. That is why Proverbs 11:24 tells us: “One person gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.” What the proverb calls “withholding unduly” is the inability to give that is simply another form of coveting.

That is why Jesus warned his disciples “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed [or “covetousness” as many versions translate this word]; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions” (Luke 12:15). Notice that in saying this, Jesus warned against “all kinds of greed” and was speaking not only about things that people did not have and coveted, but also things that they had.

Paul, too, warns us that we should not give “reluctantly or under compulsion” (2 Corinthians 9:7). If we are reluctant to give, or even if we give, but our hearts are not in it, we can be guilty of coveting.  Certainly, that is an attitude that does not please God – as Paul also tells us in the same verse, “God loves a cheerful giver.”

So the principle of not coveting is far wider than we often presume. Just as much as it forbids our wanting something that is not rightfully ours, the tenth commandment implies that we are equally responsible not to covet by being unwilling to help others by giving of what we have.

Anyone who has read more than a few chapters of the Bible soon comes to realize that the Scriptures contain some things that are meant to be understood figuratively or symbolically rather than literally – as when Jesus said that he was a door (John 10:9).

But sometimes it is not quite so easy to tell if the intended meaning of a word or passage is literal or figurative – how are we to know in such cases?

It is always an error to think that everything the Bible says is meant literally – or that it is all meant figuratively. The best underlying principle of interpretation is to take every word or passage in its normal literal sense unless we have an indication not to do so. Here are six simple rules to follow in applying this principle:

1. Genre: Words should be interpreted literally unless the literary type of the text suggests otherwise. When David wrote that “The Lord God is a sun and shield” (Psalm 84:11) or that the sun was like: “a bridegroom leaving his chamber, and, like a strong man, runs its course with joy” (Psalm 19:4-5) he was clearly speaking poetically and we interpret the words not literally but for the concepts they suggest. Prophecy must also often be interpreted symbolically as in the vision recorded in Daniel 5, where we find “a goat with a prominent horn between his eyes” who “came from the west” (Daniel 8:5), which clearly equates with ancient Macedonian Greece (vs. 21) and its king, Alexander the Great.

2. Context: Words or passages should be interpreted literally unless the immediate or wider context suggests otherwise. When Jesus spoke in parables he described himself in symbolic form, as a Cornerstone, a Door, a Vine, Bread, Light, and Water. The immediate context clearly shows these were parables, and we do not interpret them literally. In the same way, when we consider everything the Bible says, that larger context shows us, for example, that we should not think he meant it literally when Jesus said that we should “cut off our hand” if it offends us (Matthew 5:29–30). 

3. Expression: The biblical writers used expressions and figures of speech in their ancient languages just as we do today. We may sometimes need the help of Bible translators to explain those expressions – as when Genesis 30:2 tells us “his nose burned,” meaning the man was angry.  But often biblical expressions are similar or identical to ones we might use today – as when Revelation 7:1 speaks of “the four corners of the earth” and it would be foolish to think this was meant literally.

4. Impossibility: Words or passages should be interpreted literally unless such a meaning would imply an impossibility.    For example, in the Old Testament we read “The cities are great, and walled up to heaven” (Deuteronomy 1:28), and in the New Testament “You blind guides! You strain out a gnat but swallow a camel” (Matthew 23:24). In such cases what is said would obviously be literally impossible and must be figurative.

5. Absurdity: Words or passages must be interpreted literally unless the result would imply an absurdity. When Jesus said “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I am going there to wake him up,” (John 11:11) this would not be an impossible situation, but it would be absurd to think Lazarus – who had been buried for days – was simply asleep.

6. Contradiction: Words or passages must be interpreted literally unless the sense would lead to a contradiction. This is often seen when someone says something sarcastically, while actually meaning the opposite – as when Job told his friends “Doubtless you are the only people who matter, and wisdom will die with you!” (Job 12:2).

Fortunately, the Bible often interprets its own symbols and figurative speech – just as in the book of Revelation we are told seven stars are symbols of seven angels (1:20), seven lamp stands represent seven churches (1:20), and bowls of incense represent the prayers of the saints (5:8).  But when the Bible does not directly interpret its own language, we can most often figure out whether the intended meaning is a literal or figurative one by following the six simple rules given above. 

“Those who had arrested Jesus took him to Caiaphas the high priest … But Peter followed him at a distance, right up to the courtyard of the high priest. He entered and sat down with the guards to see the outcome” (Matthew 26:57-59).

The description of Peter – who had only recently insisted that he would follow Jesus to the death if necessary (John 13:37) – as following at a safe distance after Jesus’ arrest is one of the most unflattering stories in the New Testament.  When the “chips were down,” Peter did not stick with the One he acknowledged as the Christ; though later, after his empowerment by the Spirit of God, he did, of course, follow Jesus to the end.

There are two aspects of what Matthew says about this event that we can apply to ourselves – two ways that we too can fail in following. First, we see that Peter “followed him at a distance.”  Do we do this in our lives?  If we are only partially involved in our religious beliefs, if we think of our religion  as only what we do in church, and not in our everyday lives, we are certainly following Him at a distance.

But there is also another type of distance following. We can fail to follow closely in time as well as in space. Notice that when Peter followed Jesus to the high priest’s courtyard he then “sat down ..to see the outcome.”  Do we wait to see the outcome of things before committing ourselves to following more closely?  That is the attitude of millions of people through history who have attempted to strike a bargain with God: “If you will do this – rescue me, heal me, help me or whatever – I will do better, follow you more closely.”  Although God may sometimes intervene to answer sincere prayers of this type, we must beware of putting off obedience until God has “done His side of the deal.” We can do this, for example,  by waiting till we feel our finances are in order before helping others, or in countless other ways.  Although we may feel we are sincere in these things, it’s really just following at a safe distance. We need to be following in the here and now.

It helps to remember that “Follow me” was Jesus’ first command to his disciples (Mark 1:17), and it is also his last recorded command in the Gospel of John (John 21:19). Significantly, it was to Peter that Jesus addressed that command, and repeated it, after His resurrection (John 21:21), though it clearly applies to every disciple.  Peter had to learn, and be reminded, that following Jesus  and saying we are following Jesus are not the same – and that following at a distance is not really following at all.

It’s a lesson we all need to remember at times, because God wants real followers rather than those of the “distant” or “eventual” type.   We see this in the Old Testament where God says:  “Because they have not followed me wholeheartedly, not one of those who were twenty years old or more when they came up out of Egypt will see the land I promised …” (Numbers 32:11).  We see it throughout the New Testament where numerous people failed to follow because they wanted to follow later, or at a distance: “[Jesus] said to another man, ‘Follow me.’ But he replied, ‘Lord, first let me go and bury my father’ …. Still another said, ‘I will follow you, Lord; but first let me go back and say goodbye to my family’ ” (Luke 9:59-61).

The whole point of following is really to follow as closely as possible. Jesus was explicit about this, saying: “Whoever serves me must follow me; and where I am, my servant also will be” (John 12:26).  That clearly implies following by walking with him rather than following at a safe distance.

Philippians 2:12-13 offers a profound insight into the dynamic relationship between human responsibility and our Creator:

"Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure."

Many, many over the years have quoted Phil 2:12 as proof that we must save ourselves, in a sense. “Work out your own salvation” can sound like making sure you save yourself.  But isn’t that being saved by our own works? Ephesians 2:8-9 clearly says is not the case. Ephesians 2 says we’re saved by grace through faith, and NOT by our own works, lest we start to boast. Or often on the other hand, people feel defeated as they are all too aware of their own failures and how often we fall short of God’s perfection.

If we could save ourselves, then we are our own savior. Being saved is God’s work and is God’s GIFT.  We can’t earn a gift, or it’s no longer truly a gift. Ephesians 2:8 makes that clear: “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the GIFT of God,”

Many miss how once called to salvation, totally a gift of God, our relationship with God after that should be a collaborative relationship. That’s what He wants as long as remember there is only one Savior – and it’s not you or me. Jesus is our Savior entirely.

Verse 12 challenges believers to take their salvation seriously, approaching it with reverence and intentionality.  Then verse 13 shifts the focus to the heart of the matter—God's active role in our lives.

God’s Power in Action
Verse 13 reminds us that salvation isn’t by human effort; it’s about His divine grace working within us. But remember eternal life and salvation are God’s GIFTS to us.  Let’s review this again, but read also verse 10 this time:

Ephesians 2:8-10 “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, 9 not of works, lest anyone should boast. 10 For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”

Philippians 2:12 fits more with Ephesians 2:10, that after we receive the gift of God – his salvation for us – He wants to see our lives demonstrating that new life, that new gift by doing good for others.  Salvation is a gift. We can’t earn gifts, or it’s no longer a gift but a payment. But we can show we appreciate the gift by living in a changed way and having good works.

Our good works don’t save us, but prove we are saved. And our future rewards will be largely based on our works. But remember, salvation is not a reward, but a gift.

Let’s read Philippians 2:12-13 again: "Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure."

God doesn’t just leave us to figure it out on our own. Instead, He works in us, transforming our desires (“to will”) and empowering our actions (“to do”). This work is not random but is perfectly aligned with His good pleasure—His divine plan and purpose for our lives.

The Will to Obey (“both to will…”)
Have you ever felt a sudden desire to pray, forgive, or take a step of faith? That’s God at work in you, reshaping your will to align with His. Left to ourselves, our natural inclinations often drift away from God’s ways. But His Spirit gently nudges and redirects our hearts, instilling a desire to follow Him.

The Power to Act (“and to do for his good pleasure”)
God doesn’t just stop at changing our desires; He gives us the strength to act on them through His Holy Spirit working in us. Whether it’s stepping out in faith, serving others, or resisting temptation, His power is at work, enabling us to live out the purpose He’s called us to fulfill. As Paul says later in this same epistle, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Phil. 4:13).

Living Out the Partnership
Philippians 2:13 offers hope and reassurance. It reminds us that our spiritual journey is not a solitary endeavor. God’s active presence in our lives ensures that we are never alone in our struggles, uncertainties, or growth.

As we strive to "work out our own salvation," let’s do so with the confidence that God is continually working in us—shaping our hearts, guiding our steps, and empowering us to live for His glory. And it’s all to God’s glory, not ours.

Let these verses encourage you today: you are not just working for God; you are working with God, and HE is working with you.

Recently, I was listening to the sermon “Healings Part 2: Conquer Unbelief” by Philip Shields at Light on the Rock (https://youtu.be/AjqoB6zPU9g), and it really got me thinking about how to turn my unbelief into belief. The message resonated deeply, reminding me of how often doubt can creep into our hearts, even when we want to trust God fully. Thankfully, the Bible offers wisdom and guidance to transform our unbelief into unwavering faith.

One of the most powerful examples of this transformation is found in Mark 9:23-24. A desperate father, seeking healing for his son, cries out to Jesus. When Jesus says, “If you can believe, all things are possible to him who believes,” the man responds with raw honesty: “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief!”

This story reminded me that faith doesn’t have to start perfect—it starts with surrender and a willingness to begin to trust God, even in our doubt.

Christ wondered out loud if he would find faith in the earth at his return (Luke 18:7). Hopefully we can all grow in this matter of trusting, believing and faith. 

1. Faith Comes from the Word of God

Romans 10:17 declares, “So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” To overcome unbelief, we must immerse ourselves in Scripture. The Word of God isn’t just text; it’s living and active (Hebrews 4:12), capable of renewing our minds and softening our hearts. Whether through sermons, personal Bible study, or hearing Scripture aloud, God’s Word fuels our faith. We all miss out on so much faith when we miss out on Bible study. We grow in faith when we let God speak to us by his word. Peter encourages us to seek God’s word as eagerly as a newborn baby seeks milk (1 Peter 2:1-2). 

2. Trust Over Understanding

Doubt often arises when we try to rely on our limited understanding instead of God’s infinite wisdom. Proverbs 3:5-6 urges us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.”

Replacing doubt with trust is a deliberate choice to surrender control and believe that God’s plans are higher and better than ours. It means changing where we’re looking. We’re no longer just looking at the physical scary realities, but we keep looking to Christ no matter what. This reminds us of when Peter started sinking when he took his eyes off of Jesus after Peter started walking on water. He looked at the high winds – and down he went. He should have kept trusting Jesus and his presence (Matthew 14:29-32).  Are we looking at all the physical evidence and how our mind reasons – or to guidance from our Master?

3. Pray Boldly and Honestly

James 1:5-6 encourages us to pray with unwavering faith: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting.”

Just like the father in Mark 9, we can bring our struggles to God with humility and boldness. Prayer is the bridge that connects our doubts to His promises, allowing Him to work in us.

4. Step Out in Faith

Finally, 2 Corinthians 5:7 reminds us, “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” Faith requires action, even when we can’t see the full picture. It’s in stepping out—despite fear or uncertainty—that we experience God’s faithfulness.

2 Corinthians 4:17-18  “For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory, 18 while we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal.”

Remember when the Israelites came to the Red Sea? Behind them were Pharoah’s chariots and army – and in front of them was the impassable Sea. Moses told them to stand still and see the salvation of the LORD. But what did GOD tell them?  Step forward. Get moving right now (Exodus 14:13-15). Think about times you had to step out in faith when the way seemed impossible, but God made a way.

Unbelief is not the end of the road; it’s an opportunity to grow deeper in trust and reliance on God.

Like the father in Mark 9, we can honestly acknowledge our struggles and invite Jesus to help us conquer our unbelief. Start by diving into His Word much more than we do, seeking Him in prayer – always, and trusting Him enough to take the next step of faith. Things impossible for us are totally possible with God, Messiah said (Luke 18:27). And we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us (Philippians 4:13).

 

Donating to Christian ministries is more than a financial transaction; it’s an investment in the Kingdom of God. As believers, we are called to be stewards of the resources God has entrusted to us, using them to further His work on Earth.

Matthew 6:19-21  "Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.  For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

This Website – www.Lightontherock.org  is one such ministry making a profound impact, and here are some reasons why your support matters. 

1. Advancing the complete Gospel Worldwide

Light on the Rock is committed to spreading the good news of Jesus Christ and of the Kingdom of God through teaching, preaching, and outreach. This ministry reaches people across the globe, including East Africa in countries like Kenya, Malawi, and Tanzania, as well as Pakistan, the USA, Europe, and Canada. Check out this link we have where you can hear our sermons 24/7 – around the clock, around the whole world -- practically everywhere:  https://zeno.fm/radio/light-on-the-rock/  Your donations help keep even that simple link going!  And your support helps provide biblical teachings and resources that are transforming lives and bringing people closer to God and one another. 

2. Helping Those in Need

In addition to spiritual nourishment, Light on the Rock also supports efforts to meet physical needs. From providing resources to communities in East Africa to empowering marginalized groups in Pakistan, your contributions ensure that the love of Christ is shared both practically and spiritually. This means believers in very poor areas no longer have to just meet under a tree – but in a real hall with real chairs to sit on. We have purchased and handed out over 760 Bibles to very poor families who just had no money available for that. This was possible only because of caring people like you. We have helped pay medical and hospital expenses also. Widows and orphans are being blessed and many more. So many can’t afford even basic medical care without our help. We’re trying also to prevent any more children from dying from malaria by helping with hospital bills for that, and buying mosquito nets for especially the little children, the most vulnerable. It was devastatingly sad when a little boy of four years of age recently  died quickly in Kenya because of malaria. We want to help keep the little kids alive over there! Your help will keep some children and others alive! 

3. Empowering Discipleship

Light on the Rock equips believers with tools to grow in their faith through biblical insights, online sermons, and other resources. By donating, you help this ministry continue to create life-changing materials that strengthen the global body of Christ. We are making a point to translate sermons and blogs into local languages like Swahili and Chichewa (Malawi) for those who do not speak or write English.  We could hire more translators! More people are coming to salvation via this website.

4. Obeying God’s Call to Generosity

The Bible teaches us to be cheerful givers (2 Corinthians 9:7) and reminds us that our giving is an act of worship. Pure religion is providing for widows and orphans, while remaining unspotted from the world (James 1:28).  We have widows receiving help who have also lost sons to malaria. Your loving support is feeding them and giving them hope. The blind and disabled are not left helpless, because of generous people. By supporting Light on the Rock, you’re answering God’s call to generosity, contributing to a ministry that serves people across diverse regions and cultures.

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Your gift to Light on the Rock doesn’t just affect one individual—it reaches families, communities, and nations. Whether it’s providing encouragement to believers in the USA and Canada or sharing hope in East Africa and Pakistan, your donation multiplies its eternal impact.  To understand more of how we are directly impacting very poor and needy people spiritually and physically, check out this special teaching focusing on how Jesus accepts your help personally:  https://fastcbt.com/index.php/sermons/message/who-is-the-least-of-these-my-brethren 

Supporting Light on the Rock allows you to be an active participant in God’s mission. And yes, we could really use your regular support or whenever you’re able to.  Every dollar you give helps keep us going. We need technical equipment from time to time – newer microphones, newer technology. Plus we definitely want to fulfill a calling to not leave behind any of the super-poor groups – in our case especially in East Africa -  who love God but need financial assistance to just be able to even meet together in a real hall, or with a roof over their heads and with chairs to sit on.

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What exactly is a Christian? Or a true disciple of Christ? These are questions every believer should ponder occasionally. Of course, the New Testament clearly shows that a true follower of Christ is not simply someone who believes in God (James 2:19), for even demons do that, and tremble. Nor is a true follower just one who feels they are a good person (1 John 1:8).  But how do the Scriptures actually identify a real Christian?

Dr. George Barna, head of the respected Barna Research Group, recently shared some interesting statistics (Raising Spiritual Champions,‎ Arizona Christian University Press, 2023) regarding Christianity in the United States that are relevant to this question.  Barna noted that there are some 174 million self-identified Christians in the US – constituting 68 percent of the country’s population.  But there are only 84 million who attend a church once a week – constituting 33 percent  of the population –  and only 46 million Christians – some 18 percent of the population– who self-identify as being deeply committed to their faith.

What is amazing is not that these numbers are so low, but that true disciples of Christ are probably far fewer still. As Barna correctly notes, just being willing to identify ourselves as Christian, growing up in a Christian family, going to church, or even feeling that we are “committed” believers does not make us Christians. Sadly, even among the minority of more committed individuals, Barna’s research shows that very few understand what actually constitutes the biblical definition of a disciple of Christ.  

Fundamentally, as the apostle Paul wrote, “If anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ ... The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children” (Romans 8:9, 16), but how do we recognize such a person –  a true disciple or follower of Jesus? Several verses in the Gospel of John provide the answer to this question from the words of Jesus himself. 

First, Jesus taught unequivocally that “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples” (John 8:31).  Jesus spoke these words to those who were said to believe on him (“To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said …”), showing belief alone is not enough to make us a real follower of Jesus.  If we do not obey Christ’s teachings, we simply are not his disciples – and, of course, this involves knowing what those teachings are. If we do not know what Christ commanded, we cannot “hold to” or keep his teachings.

Jesus also insisted on another identity test for his true followers: “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:35). Although this primarily means love of other Christians in the context in which it was spoken, loving “one another” also has the broader application of loving everyone, whether fellow believers or not.  And what made it a new command, was his statement to love one another “as I have loved you” (verse 34). Love as Christ loves.

Finally,  Jesus told his followers: “This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples” (John 15:8). Even if we obey Christ’s commands and love one another, we must still bear spiritual fruit in order to truly be a follower of Christ. Usually we tend to think of spiritual fruit in terms of Paul’s list of the “fruit of the Spirit” (Galatians 5:22-23), and these qualities could certainly be included in what Jesus said, but in context his words about bearing “fruit” perhaps apply even more to Christian service – that we do not simply develop ourselves, but that we enable God to work through us to produce  spiritual fruit, doing good works and spreading the gospel in whatever ways we can. Notice, regarding this final test, John shows Jesus spoke to his disciples about being one with him in a context of service (John 15:14) and stressed that “I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit” (John 15:16 emphases added).  The disciples were not appointed and then told to “go” just to develop their own spiritual attributes. Fruit on a tree is not just for the tree, but to feed others – people, deer, and more. In the same way, fruit God produces in us is to be shared with others for their benefit.

Jesus summarized exactly these three criteria of discipleship on the final evening of his ministry.   In John 15:10–16 we find that he told his followers “If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love … Love each other as I have loved you ... I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last.” 

The apostle John elaborates on these same requirements of discipleship repeatedly in his letters (1 John 2:3; 2:10; 3:10; 3:17–18; etc.), but it is important to remember that the criteria were not just John’s and that they were established by Jesus himself. 

Jesus showed that anything less than the pursuit of these goals is not really following him. It is only as we obey him, love one another, and produce spiritual fruit in the form of good works and the furtherance of the gospel that we are truly his disciples – that we are really following Jesus Christ.  Are we settling for less? That is something we can all think about.

*This blog post was adapted from the author’s website at TacticalChristianity.org.

Note from P Shields: this article or blog is by Carol Taylor and she brings some deep insights into this topic. Enjoy. 

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We all know what happens if muscles are not exercised—they get flabby. Not because they ‘turn to fat’ but because they lose the mass that developed when we were pushing them. Neither bones nor muscles develop properly nor remain healthy if there is no stress put on them. Even seedlings must endure some wind at times, or they will grow up weak and scrawny.

            If we didn’t have to go through any difficulties, we think we’d be happier, but we wouldn’t be growing like we should. Unlike animals, virtually every new motor skill we learn results in many failures before accomplishment—whether walking, running, jumping, climbing, skating, biking or whatever. It’s a good thing we start learning these things as children, because a great many adults would likely never try, knowing the struggle it was going to be.

            In the same way, trials are a necessary part of our growth, maturity, and development. And don’t think that all trials are some kind of punishment from God! Remember it says of Christ that He ‘learned obedience by the things He suffered.’ (Heb 5:8) This does not mean that Christ was disobedient in any way! It means He learned how difficult obedience is when we have to deny our natural evil instincts.

            “For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” (Heb 4:15-16)

            Have you ever had someone tell you, “I know just what you’re going through!”? Unless that person has gone through what you’ve gone through, they can’t really understand. There just is no way to know what it’s like to lose a child, a mate, go through divorce, a serious car accident, loss of a job, long-term illness, suffer endless severe pain, etc. unless you have gone through it yourself. We can sympathize with someone’s trials, but we cannot empathize unless we’ve been through a similar experience.

            In that regard, Paul said something very interesting about his trials: “Now I rejoice in what I am suffering for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ’s afflictions, for the sake of His body, which is the church.” (Colossians 1:24 NIV)

            What does he mean about afflictions which are ‘lacking’ in Christ’s Body? It's quite possible it means that his (and our) sufferings and endurance in trials add knowledge and understanding to His own Body! After all, there are all kinds of human afflictions Christ had no time or opportunity to experience during His short time on earth. Christ never lost an arm or leg, never had a disease, never lost a child, never was paralyzed, never had his home vandalized, never was in a severe accident… The list could go on and on. And, in order for the Body of Christ—the Church—to be fully empathetic of every type of human tragedy and suffering, it would make sense that at least one of the Elect has to go through it. Then, as a complete entity, the Body of Christ would never encounter anyone throughout the ages who would be able to say, “You don’t understand.”

            We know Paul was not being punished when he suffered a shipwreck, was left in the open sea to drown, was beaten, stoned, imprisoned, disrespected, etc. But he was a light to the world in his sufferings, was miraculously preserved from death many times, and rejoiced that he was counted worthy to add his afflictions to Christ’s Body—the Church.  So, we too or even as the direct result of ours or others’ sins. Although we do bring things on ourselves, and others’ actions do affect us, many times trials come upon God’s people for no apparent reason and we should not see every trial as God punishing us. And though it’s hard to ‘count it all joy’ when we fall into trials and difficulties, (James 1:2) it should help to know that it might be part of our preparation for our place in God’s Kingdom. After all, we are going to be priests and kings to the entire world one day! (Rev 1:6; 5:10) In order to be effective rulers, we must go through testing and trials to understand the world’s sufferings just as Christ did.

            One other purpose of trials is for God to show us our hidden faults, as He did with Job. It’s not easy for us to see our own self-righteousness, selfishness, vanity, etc. yet these are serious sins just as much as any other and need to be rooted out.  “Search me, O God, and know my heart: Try me, and know my thoughts and see if any wicked way is in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” (Psa 139:23-24)

            When Job went through his many difficulties, he said, “Should we accept blessings from God and not adversity?” Job knew that so many tragedies coming all at once could not be coincidental. Although he didn’t understand why so many bad things had happened to him, he knew God was in charge and had allowed them. And God would not have allowed Satan to do so much to Job if He wasn’t quite sure Job would remain faithful to Him.

            When we go through a series of trials, one way to rejoice is to acknowledge that it is God who allows Satan to test us. Like Job, we should be fully confident that God is in charge and actually feel honored that He believes us strong enough to withstand Satan’s attacks. God uses Satan to correct, test and try us—just like He uses the wind to build strength in trees and shrubs or to knock them down if they aren’t strong enough. Satan only wishes to do evil and thinks he can undermine God’s plan. He has no idea that he is simply a tool in God’s hand and, when he is no longer useful, will be removed.

            We’re very happy to attribute all the good things in our lives to God but don’t always realize that the evil God allows, or even sends, is also for our ultimate benefit! We love to quote Romans 8:28 but must remember all things work together for good, for God’s purpose it says. When we can trust God even in the tough trials, that shows God our faith remains in him regardless of what He lets us go through. In fact, that builds the faith muscles of our lives. And in these – we can rejoice. 

It may take years to fully understand why God sent or allowed various trials, but someday we’ll understand. And in the meantime, the trials help us become what God needs us to be. For example, we’re told in Job 42:11b that Job’s family came to comfort Job for all the adversity God had brought upon Job, though God used Satan to actually do it. Even Joseph told his brothers that all the evil they had done against him was actually all in God’s plan – to eventually save many people alive (Genesis 50:18-21).  What a lesson for us too! Joseph must have often wondered why he was spending years in a dungeon. God was having his purposes accomplished and faith being built.

 Trials create strength, understanding, humility, faith, perseverance, endurance, depth, maturity, and much more (Romans 5:3-4). And we must always remember that God will let nothing bad happen to us that isn’t part of His plan. He can and does stop many bad things from happening to us—sometimes in miraculous ways—but He also allows us to experience a normal life in a world full of suffering and pain. We must experience some of what everyone else does—occasional sickness, injury, accidents, pain, sorrow—because we are part of this world. And it will help us have deep empathy for others when we reign with Christ as priests and kings. But God is always aware of what we’re going through! Every moment of our lives is in His hand and awareness. After all, he knows when every sparrow alights on the ground and has every hair on our heads numbered. (Matt 10:29-31)

            Trust God in good times and in bad. He has a purpose for all we go through, and He never sleeps nor slumbers! (Psa 121). So yes, we can and must learn to rejoice even in our trials.

           

           

Written by older ladies in the Church of God

(Please do NOT give this to teenagers youger than 18. Parents should read this and reveal as much as they feel their teens need to know).

In coed sports, when male players accuse female players of trying to distract them with their skimpy outfits, it’s not usually taken seriously.  But did you know that the same sort of feminine distractions are the cause of thousands of car accidents every day?!  A study done in August 2022 discovered that, in Britain alone, nearly a million accidents a year are caused by drivers—mostly men—being distracted by attractive pedestrians and billboards!  [1]

Given the way most women dress today, it’s highly unlikely that many of the women the drivers said they ‘could not help but look at’ were dressed modestly.  And you can be almost certain that the beautiful women on the billboards—which many of the men said they ‘couldn’t tear their eyes away from’—were scantily clothed and posing seductively. 

 

 

 

 

 

We older women remember how fun it was to turn heads and feel attractive to the opposite sex.  Like most other young women, we didn’t understand what turned a guy on and were often surprised that something as innocent as a strap of a sundress falling off our shoulder could do it, or the wind accidentally blowing our skirt up.  We now have a far better understanding of how those strange creatures called men, work. Of course, we’ve also included many comments from men as we thought it best to ‘go to the horses’ mouth,’ so to speak!

In our youth, clothing like mini-skirts, short shorts and thigh-high boots were introduced by the fashion designers, music and movie stars. They were banned by most parents, schools, and colleges but girls nonetheless bought them. Nowadays, the mini-skirt is considered normal and is even accepted as part of the uniform for some high schools, both private and public. But God’s Word commands women to be modest in every way, and for good reason!

“And I want women to be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes. 

For women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do.” (I Tim 2:9-10)  

“Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious.” (1 Peter 3:3-4)

Acting or dressing in a sexy manner creates lust in men. Modesty, femininity and sweetness create a desire in men to care for and protect a woman. 

Decaying Morals

The Western world’s morals are on a severe downward spiral with many music and movie stars taking provocative clothing and seductiveness to a whole new low.  It likely makes most young women today feel quite modest in their strapless crop-tops and mini-skirts, compared to the many outrageous outfits of so many idolized female pop stars. 

But merely dressing less immodestly than pop stars is not what a godly woman should be striving for!  As quoted by Tomorrow’s World magazine from an article in the magazine, Good Housekeeping, “Surviving Britney Spears”:

“Parading through videos in cropped-tops and bikinis, she has incredible appeal to girls as young as eight or nine.  Young teenagers are increasingly immersed in an erotic world. The results are quite evident…many, barely into their teens, look and act like prostitutes!”  [11] 

It is sad to see very young girls wearing cloting and makeup like little sex objects. What are their parents thinking?

Do you really want your teen to be mistaken for a prostitute?  But do you know what you are saying by the clothes you’re wearing!?  Here is some wise advice that sums up the Biblical principle of modesty: ‘Wear clothes tight enough to show you’re a woman and loose enough to show you’re a lady.        ’
 
The same principle applies to any outfit that shows cleavage, is too short, or shows any part of your body that is meant to be kept private.  A godly woman does not show off her body in any way.  (If you’re not sure whether something is provocative, ask someone you trust—like your parents, a brother, or husband)

This excerpt from the same World Tomorrow magazine should help make it clear: “Skirts that are too short and tight, plunging necklines, high slits and other similar styles are designed to send a sexually seductive message to men. While many young women would deny this is their intention and say that it is just the style, their parents need to help them grasp that, regardless of their motive for doing so, they are projecting an image that is seductive and sexually arousing to men.” [11]

Immodesty is Self-Defeating

While it isn’t wrong for women to try to be attractive, to purposely dress or act in any way that tempts a man sexually (other than her husband in private) is absolutely wrong, foolish, and counterproductive.  Of course, most women in the Western world dress in skimpy clothing because it is the fashion of the day, but they are nonetheless following Satan’s way when they do, and it is self-defeating—as we will prove! 
 
The survey in the Daily Mail called men’s dangerous attention to attractive females, ‘lust.’ Lust begins with looking which can very quickly create sexual arousal in men and can then turn to lust in a heartbeat.  While it is not wrong for any of us to look at the opposite sex with admiration, lusting after anyone is a sin. 

But do you really know what lust is? Lust is not just sexual desire.  A man and a woman in love will have sexual desire for each other which is God-given, beautiful, natural, and normal.  Sexual desire can and should be a part of every marriage based on love.  But lust has nothing to do with love!  It is selfishly desiring immediate sexual gratification and involves no lasting feelings for the person desired.  Lust can even be aroused in men by seeing private body parts of a woman having no idea of who they belong to!  The current fad of girls sending risqué pictures of just their private parts to men—many complete strangers—is doing exactly that!  It is an absolute abomination purposely tempting men to sin and a disgrace for any woman to engage in!

Women must understand that most men will be attracted to and look at sexy women—even if they are happily married.  But, as strong as their sex drive is, the majority still value true love, a lasting relationship, and a family, above all else.   And women who dress as sex objects are usually not taken seriously, whereas the modest, girl-next-door type are looked up to and valued.   For a woman to mix sweet and innocent with sexy and alluring, confuses men, to say the least.   Always dress for the type of woman you are!

One of the biggest mistakes women make with men is believing that when a man desires them sexually it means he likes and cares for them.  The old saying is true: Women give sex to get love and men give ‘love’ to get sex.  Of course, men are not giving love when they are ‘in lust’—they are only doing and saying whatever will get a woman to have sex with them!

Lust causes men to objectify and use women and even despise them because it is focused solely on satisfying the self.  This is exactly what happened between Amnon and Tamar. (2 Sam 13)  And it’s why ungodly men can have sex with any number of women with no feelings or concern for them whatsoever. 

Job said, “I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman.” (Job 31:1 NIV)
 
And Christ said, “Whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”  (Matt 5:28) 

There is no such command for women!  So don’t blame men because their thoughts can so often turn to sex, or because they are much more easily aroused—it’s the way God made them!  And, whether a woman shows sexy body parts purposely or accidentally, makes no difference in how it can affect men. It is up to you to wear clothes that don’t even accidentally show off your body!  As one long-time minister said,

“I really appreciate it when a woman keeps her top from gaping open as she bends over, to prevent me seeing something that might tempt me to sin.”    

A woman who truly understands the nature of lust, would never desire to have men be ‘in lust’ with her. It is one of the most misunderstood aspects of male/female relationships and why so many women are hurt when, what they thought was a relationship built on love, turns out to only have been built on lust. 

All women need to understand that, to a man, a woman acting or looking ‘sexy’ is offering herself to every man around.  So, he assumes it’s just a matter of which man she’ll choose to satisfy her—and him—sexually.  And when a woman dresses in a way to purposely ‘inspire’ lust, that’s usually all she’s going to get!

"Dear Girls, dressing immodestly is like rolling around in manure. Yes, you'll get attention, but mostly from pigs!" Sincerely, Real Men

Modesty and True Love

Here is God’s way in a nutshell from a man who has been in God’s Church for over 50 years and was happily married for over 40 years:

“You have a perfectly loving heavenly Father, and His way is THE ONLY WAY that works. Unfortunately, many people settle for something that can look and feel like love but is not!  Lust—and being lusted after—is Satan’s way and his way NEVER WORKS!  It might feel like love and be exciting for a time, but Satan’s way always ends in pain.  The way for you to have the very best that God created for you—the love you need and deserve—is to save every aspect of your sexuality for a man who will treasure you, protect you, provide for you, and truly love you. 

Don't dress or act in any way that might attract fake ‘love’!  Get the whole enchilada!  God truly loves you and wants the very best for you!”

Do you really want the kind of attention that puts sex first instead of respect, love, and commitment?  Without love there can be no commitment and without commitment there can be no love.   So, when you dress or act in a sexy manner, you are shooting yourself in the foot because it comes across as blatantly offering sex with no commitment.  And most men cannot even think of getting to know or care about a woman when their sexual desire is aroused, because that desire, once stirred, is all they can think about.

Too many women know firsthand how aggressive and persistent men can be when they are crazy for sex. The severe emotional and bodily injury that can occur in rape are so disastrous that most women can never get past it.  However, while a woman should never attempt to arouse sexual desire in a man other than her husband, she is never responsible for rape or abuse no matter how she acts or dresses!  But if you aren’t offering sex, don’t send wrong messages by dressing or acting in a sexy manner! 

And don’t think a man’s need for sexual release is somehow shameful—God made men that way!  However, He does not condone men fulfilling their needs with any woman except his wife!  The Bible addresses this need in marriage quite clearly:

“Do not deprive each other of sexual relations unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.” (I Cor 7:5 NLT)

Most women can go weeks, months, and even years without the need for any kind of sex.  Men aren’t made that way!  That’s why there are far more men indulging in pornography, strip shows, and sex for hire, than women.  But it is not the desire that is evil, it is the way either men or women seek to fulfill that desire. It is meant to be shared in marriage only and wives who deprive their husbands of sex are causing their husbands to be tempted to find sex elsewhere and damaging their marriage big time.   Just as food is not much of a temptation when your stomach is full, so a man who is satisfied sexually will be far less likely to be tempted than one who is deprived. 

Women Need to Control Their Wrong Desires too!

If you protest that men should just control themselves, you’re absolutely right!  But women must also control their own wrong desires because it isn’t just men that are guilty of lust! 

While some few women may be sex driven, most women just want attention and admiration. This is why so many women ‘compete’ with other women, resorting to immodest clothing as a common strategy.  And, even when they know they’re getting the wrong kind of attention, or are even happily married, it’s why many women still want to dress in a provocative manner!    Lust for attention can be as addictive as a drug—and yes, it is lust if a woman’s desire to be admired leads her in wrong ways—like showing off her body or behaving immorally!  That is Satan’s way, it is sinful, and it does not lead to any kind of lasting happiness.  God tells us plainly: “A person who commits sexual immorality sins against their own body.”  (I Cor 6:18)    The temptation to dress like the world is very strong but it cheapens a woman in a man’s eyes making her appear as a sex object—not the result most women are striving for!  Like setting a diamond in a worthless plastic ring, it can be difficult for a man to believe there is a woman of great value under a cheap sexy exterior.  

"As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman who is without descretion" Proverbs 11:22

Virtually any woman of any age or size can get men’s attention by acting or dressing immorally, so don’t think it’s any great accomplishment if you get lots of looks.  Seek instead respect and true love by presenting yourself as decent, moral, and modest.  A woman who does not demean herself by pandering to men’s lust, may not get as much initial attention, but the attention she does get will more likely be respectful and for her as a person rather than as a sex object.   

A modest, upright woman shows that she respects herself and is saving herself for one special man.  That makes her of far more value than those who flaunt themselves.  But we are very complex and devious and don’t always acknowledge or know why we do what we do, which is why King David asked God to cleanse him from secret sins.  (Psa 19:12)   

 

But Immodest Clothing is the Norm!

It would be understandable if you thought that because immodest clothing has been prevalent for so long, men aren’t really affected by it anymore.  But look at this response from a recent survey by 200 women given to 200 men [2]: “Despite rampant immodesty all around us, girls who choose to dress modestly do make a difference!”   92% of the guys agreed.  Here are some more responses to the girl’s questions to the men:

• Can a girl tempt a boy by the way she dresses? 98% said, Yes.
• Does fashion use sex appeal? 96% said, Yes.
• Do you believe that boys are stimulated by sight more than girls? 92% said, Yes.
• Do you feel that girls really understand the problem of immodest apparel? 50% said, No.
• Which part of the female body as seen in public most quickly arouses your emotions? 60% said, Legs.
• If you were married, would you want other men and boys to lust after your wife?  96% said, No.
• Are most boys tempted to lust after a girl who dresses the way girls dress today?  77% said, Yes. [2]  

As Christ said: “Temptation to do wrong is inevitable, but how terrible it will be for the person who does the tempting.” (Matthew 18:7 NLT)

This is not saying we are ever responsible for anyone else’s sins. ‘The devil made me do it’ doesn’t work with God!  God commands men to keep their thoughts pure and they must not put the blame on any woman, no matter how she dresses or acts.  However, lust is something all decent men fight all their lives and we women are either helping or hindering them by what we wear and how we act!

If you are hindering your brother in Christ by how you dress or act, YOU ARE SINNING!

This comment was from a college-age man: “The thing that women do not seem to fully grasp is that the temptation towards lust does not stop for us as men.  It is continual.  It is aggressive.  It does all it can to lead men down to death.  They [women] have a choice to help or deter its goal.  Consider this message my appeal on behalf of the men for you to help us deter the goal of lust in our lives.  To the girls who are ignorant, please serve your brother, and have your dad screen your wardrobe.  Ask him how you can better choose holiness over worldliness. To the girls who don't follow the pattern of the world, thank you a million times over!  You are following Scripture's commands and helping your brothers in the process.” [5]

The author of ‘Modesty Never Goes out of Style’, said this: “I heard a story of one of the ladies…who went shopping and really liked the shirt she was trying on; but then she thought, ‘No, I can't do this to the guys.’  That was the first time I’d ever heard of anything like that, and it made me so grateful.  It is such a blessing to have friends who care for me enough to be selfless and sacrifice what might look attractive in order to help me and other guys with sexual lust.  When ladies dress modestly, it's attractive.  Oh, yes, it is!  There is nothing more attractive ­­­­­than a godly woman dressed modestly, and it makes me want to hang out with them more.  I think modesty is so attractive and helpful in friendship because it makes it easier for a friendship to be centered around God and for fellowship to be unhindered.”  [5]

And this is a quote from a college student on Family Life: “Sometimes when I see a girl provocatively dressed, I'll say to myself, 'She probably doesn't even know that 101 guys are going to devour her in their minds today.'  Then, again, maybe she does.  To be honest, I don't know the truth: the truth of why she chooses to dress the way she does, the way she chooses to walk, the way she chooses to act.  I don't know because I've never sat down with the girl and asked her ‘Why?’  All I need to know is that the way she presents herself to the world is bait for my sinful mind to latch onto, and I need to avoid it at all costs.” [5]           
 
Here’s a comment from a man, aged 30:  “They distinguish themselves—the very thing the immodest girls are trying to do.  All girls have curves.  To a guy, showing more than that…doesn’t tell him anything new.  He knows you’re a girl; he wants a lady!”   [2]

Another from a 16-year old man:  “Yes, they (modestly dressed women) make me think!   That’s the kind of girl I want to marry!  Not only that, but their courage inspires me to be pure!”  [2]

A gentleman aged 21 said this: “They make a difference to me because they show me there’s something out there to save myself for.  They give me hope and prove they are a princess worth valuing. “ [2]    

Good Men Don’t Want you to Dress Immodestly!

One Church of God minister summed it up in a sermon: “The fellows who have a proper mind-set—who want to be Christians in every way—very much want to get to know the ladies around them.  But if they are approached by a lady who is dressed so provocatively that every moment he’s with her he’s got to guard his thoughts about the obvious way she’s coming across—as a sexual object—he can’t think about her personality; he can’t think about a conversation he might have with her.  He’s too busy—as a Christian—trying to block out all those things that are slapping him in the face wanting to get his attention in the wrong way.”

In summarizing a lot of the comments (from the survey above), so many of the guys said, ‘You know, when a woman dresses modestly, then I can get to know her! I can ask her about her life, and we can develop a relationship. And it goes so much better when the other ‘thing’ is not there, kind of ‘beating me up’.
 
“One of our young men said in a sermonette that he had gone to a warm-weather Feast site and the ladies in the Church were wearing bikinis.  Now I would submit to you—in a public setting—how would a bikini ever be proper?!  A Church setting at the Feast of Tabernacles and OUR ladies in OUR Church are wearing bikinis!?  How is that ever justifiable?!  And the people this man was talking about were not teenagers.  They were in their twenties and past, so this is not just for our teens.”  [2]

Look at this excerpt from a church bulletin:  “Dear sisters, On behalf of and for the benefit of men who are seeking to live in accordance with the will of God and to keep themselves pure and holy, to the end that you not encourage them to lust, and for your own eternal welfare, please do not call undue attention to yourself or expose yourself by wearing immodest apparel.

Godly men do not want to see your thighs—or more—in clothing that is too short, your cleavage in tops that are too low, your navels in tops that are too short, your undergarments in clothing that is too thin, nor the curves and characteristics of your bodies in clothing that is too tight.  Please look in the mirror at yourself—front and back—and ask yourself if your attire is becoming one professing godliness. You may need to make some changes.  A brother in Christ”  [2]

As one long-time Elder put it: “Personally, when I see things like this [ladies in immodest clothing], it is with disgust, a turn off and I think many men feel the same way!”      
 
Did you know that the late Queen Elizabeth of England did not allow any of the women in her family to appear in any official photographs in anything immodest?  At the very least we should be dressing as modestly as the Royal family, because, after all, we are always dressing for the very King of the Universe!  And His laws are always for our benefit!

As is stated in the COGWA Teen Blog:  “Are we dressing to impress the guys, or are we dressing in a way that shows them respect? You want a guy to respect you for you, and not for what you wear.  When we dress in inappropriate clothing, we can be creating a stumbling block for the men around us. Wearing short shorts and low-cut shirts will only attract the wrong kind of guy and send the wrong message to a Christian man.          
 
“How are we supposed to become friends with a guy when his mind is everywhere but on what we are saying? We can dress attractively while still staying modest and respecting everyone around us. Yes, it can sometimes be very challenging to find appropriate clothing at the mall.  Still, a pure woman chooses to dress and act in a way that makes her an object of respect rather than an object of lust.” [8]

Modest attire is also important in job interviews and the workplace. As Betsy Olinger, founder of Marketing-U (www.marketing-u.com), an executive coaching firm, said about work attire:  “If it's something you think you look 'hot' in, it's wrong.  Women who dress in a manner that arouses men’s sexual senses are usually not taken seriously when it comes to promotions in the workplace.  They are seen as just wanting a ‘good time’ and studies show that a woman whose work attire is too provocative can be sabotaging her career.” [9]
 
Secure women have no compulsion to flaunt themselves. These women value their worth and show it in their dress and are far more likely to inspire men to also value and honor them! 

What Men Think Women are Saying When They Wear Seductive Clothing

Men can’t read women’s minds and they don’t understand women any better than women understand men.  Most men believe women who wear provocative clothing are showing that they want sex!  And is that not a logical conclusion?!  As they say in the business world: ‘Dress for the position you want!’    Haworth-Hoeppner (1998) reported that men…’believed women’s clothing choice was actually used to signal sexual intent’. [7]     
 
“Moor had male and female Israeli students view a photo of a woman wearing low cut tight jeans with a short top that exposed her breasts and midriff. Participants were asked to explain why the woman was so dressed. Men indicated women’s primary intentions for wearing sexy dress were temptation and seduction. Women indicated the woman dressed that way to gain affection. Over half the women shared that they sometimes dressed in body-revealing clothing; of those, nearly three-fourths indicated that they did so to look attractive, not to indicate their sexual intent.” [7]

Would you think i's OK for men to make sexually suggestive remarks to women in Church? I think not! But do you not realize that wearing sexy, suggestive outfits is inappropriate in the same way?

The bottom line is this: If you don’t want men to treat you as a sex object, do not dress like one!  Godly men neither need nor want a woman to cheapen herself by wearing immodest clothing.   They greatly value modesty and mystery!  Be different from the herd and choose to be modest!  The Devil tries every way he can to besmirch sex which God made to be beautiful, bonding and private between a husband and wife, so dressing in any kind of provocative, sexy way in public fits right in with his evil plans!  Remember who rules this world—including the fashion industry—Satan the devil! 

As Author Jeff Pollard states:  “The fashion industry does not believe that the principal purpose of clothing is to cover the body; it believes that the principal purpose of clothing is sexual attraction…” [3]
 
The Chicago Sun Post had this to say:  “Year after year, a handful of suspicious-looking characters who call themselves clothing designers issue their commands: ‘Wear your dresses short and wear boots and look like a ‘hooker.’ Now dress like a gypsy fortune-teller. Now look like a farm wife. Now wear spiked heels. Now show your thighs.’  And every time the pimps of fashion give word, all these ‘enlightened’ females obediently trudge to the clothing store.” [10]

Women must not be slaves to fashion!  It may take a little more work, more hunting for the right clothes and maybe some modifications, but to be modest is part of Godliness and Godly men appreciate it more than you know!  It IS worth it!

 

Don’t Feed Your Vanity

A great many women flaunt their bodies shamelessly and not only don’t care if men are affected but do it on purpose to tease, get attention, manipulate men, or feed their vanity.  This must not be a godly woman’s attitude.  Hopefully this article is helping you understand how a man’s mind works so you will make better choices in your clothes—all of them!

Here is what one man said:

“…if I could say anything to the women in the church, it would be this: first, there is not a man I know that doesn't struggle in some way with lust.  If they had any idea what went through guys' minds, it would probably vastly change the way they dress.  Secondly, and I think most importantly, God has created his church to be a resting place for Christians, to be a place where people encounter God without all the distractions… It is disappointing when I walk into the church or an event with the church and have to deal with the same temptations that I face in the world, but I rejoice whenever I see a girl or woman that is attempting to serve the Lord (and guys) by dressing modestly.  You have no idea how sweet and challenging it is when I see a woman who has decided not to flaunt her body— like the culture shouts for her to do—but rather she has decided that serving the Lord and her brothers is more important.” 

Another single man put it this way: “The one place where I might think not to have to face temptation is at church.  But this is not always the case!  When ladies that I'm friends with dress immodestly, it definitely has a negative effect on our friendship.  When she dresses immodestly, it doesn't make it easy to see her as a sister in Christ.  There is a constant battle going on as I'm talking with her.  Communication becomes more difficult because as I'm trying to listen to her, I am also trying to fight temptation.  I also think some ladies just aren't aware.” [5]

If you don't want other women showing off their bodies in as such a way that might tempt youir boyfriend or husband to lust, then why would you dress that way yourself?

This excerpt from a 1962 Good News magazine may be old but the advice is timeless: “God made the female body to be attractive to the male.  This attraction may be, and should be, one of sheer beauty.  But it also may be a stimulation of lust.  Especially when certain parts of the female figure are emphasized, such as the hips and buttocks by tight skirts, the low neckline exposing portions of breasts, or too-short skirts exposing more than is modest of the female leg.

“When I see a female with a skirt tight enough to call attention to her hips, she is either careless or else she is wearing it deliberately to attract male eyes and arouse lust toward her.  Wearing skirts which completely expose the knees when sitting, is an abomination in God’s eyes.  Are you deliberately trying to tempt men into breaking the spirit of God’s law against adultery?  Are you not breaking the very spirit of that law, yourselves?  God’s Church encourages women to dress neatly, pleasingly, attractively within the bounds of proper modesty and good taste.  It is the over-emphasis of lust-arousing portions of the female body that must be corrected.” [6]        This also applies to skin-tight jeans, pants or leggings.  Showing off your body from the knees to the bust in any way—whether clothed or unclothed—is not God’s way.

From a minister in the United Church of God: “Virtually every man between the ages of 12 and 112 who has a normal set of male hormones responds to any female immodesty, overt sensuality or suggestiveness! The response may be lust and sexual arousal…But he may have another negative response, such as embarrassment, a compulsive curiosity to see more or annoyance at the distraction. If the man is trying to obey God, he may lament or resent the visual temptation that has provoked a mental battle within him.  A man often has mixed feelings, being turned on and turned off at the same time.” [12]

From a pastor: “Ladies, please don’t forget to apply these principles of modesty to formal events and weddings. In recent years, I have become increasingly grieved by the immodest dresses of both brides and bridesmaids at the weddings that I officiate. I have observed a number of young ladies in our fellowship who have dressed modestly all their lives appearing on their wedding day in extremely provocative dresses, exposing more of themselves than on any other day of their lives.

“Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself when shopping for a wedding or bridesmaid’s dress: Does this dress reflect the fact that a wedding ceremony is a holy service of worship and not a fashion show?  Can I picture myself standing in this dress, for an extended period of time, just a few feet from my pastor as he opens the Word of God and leads me in my solemn vows?

“Here are some criteria:

1. Find a wedding dress with a neckline that completely conceals any cleavage.
2. Avoid dresses without sufficient covering in the back.
3. Strapless gowns or dresses with only spaghetti straps are revealing
4. A modest gown should not be excessively tight and draw unnecessary attention to your figure.” [5]

Buying into the World’s Deception

When you attend a pop or rock concert featuring many of the popular femalesingers with their extremely provocative performances, do you have any idea how it is affecting virtually every man there, including your date, boyfriend, or husband?  There is no way any normal man can watch those indecent women gyrate around a stage with almost nothing on and not be tempted to lust!  And remember, you paid to see them! 

There are also some women who take their husbands to lingerie stores in order to pick out something sexy for themselves!  Really!?  Unless he is blind, he can’t help but notice many posters and ads with larger-than-life perfect bodies in sexy underwear and lingerie, guaranteed to arouse sexual desire!  And that desire won’t be for his wife!

If you wish to marry a man who is striving to keep himself sexually pure, does it make sense for you to dress in a way that tempts him to be impure?

What Can I Wear Then?

So, is the answer to wear clothing that covers every inch of us?  Of course not! There is no need for women to look weird or like you belong to some cult.  There are websites that sell modest clothing for women and plenty of fashions that are not revealing.  You can also wear a camisole under a low-cut top; sew up a slit in a skirt; wear something modest under anything see-through, put a long loose top over hip-hugging skirts, tight leggings and yoga pants, etc.  (Some women think that because tight leggings or yoga pants ‘cover’ them, they aren’t being immodest.  But even though skin may not be showing, revealing the cracks and dimples of a woman’s private parts through clothing can also be a huge turn-on for men.)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Women can dress very attractiveliy and still be modest!

You may have to buy clothing a size bigger to give you room because a lot of clothing that is ‘your’ size will be purposely made to tightly outline your figure.   But there are plenty of very modest, yet very pretty clothes for all sizes.  There really is no excuse!

A great many women who wouldn’t wear tight or revealing clothing out shopping or to work, somehow think the gym is different.  But immodesty in public at any time is a sin.  This means there are some hobbies and professions a godly woman cannot take part in.  If it requires immodest clothing, it is not suitable for a woman of God. 

But what about the Apostle Peter’s instructions against expensive clothing or jewelry, or fancy hairdos? (I Peter 3:3-4)

As a minister in UCG explains:

“These verses are talking about giving the wrong impression…If God has blessed us and we have sufficient income to buy nice clothing and jewelry—buy the nice clothing!  But not to show off or ‘one-up’ somebody else!  Is there something wrong with women taking care of their hair?  Absolutely not!  The whole concept…is that we are not to do anything for the wrong reason and not to overdo things from a vanity point of view but to do the very best with what God gives us. godly women should want to take care of what God has given them and look the very best they can—but modestly.  To be modest doesn’t mean to be ugly…the idea here is to adorn yourself with a meek and quiet spirit, and this is a big part of what modesty is.  It’s not just what we put on our bodies; it’s what we have in our minds in terms of an attitude.” [4]

Going back to the survey, the girls asked the guys for their reactions to this statement: “Girls can dress attractively without being immodest.”  97% of the men agreed! 

Strive to look Sweet rather than Saucy; Feminine rather than Foxy;
Class rather than Sassy!

Here are two comments from men, age 19: “Girls can be beautiful, noticeably beautiful, and guys can notice it without there being immodesty or lust involved and this is a good design of God!  Jacob, for example, clearly thought Rachel was beautiful in Genesis.  But there is no hint that Rachel dressed immodestly or that Jacob lusted after her.  Don’t allow the Devil to make us think the enemy is beauty!  The enemy is manipulation—the very ugly forces of lust and vanity in our hearts.”     
 
“When your views on beauty have been aligned with the Bible, you’ll be attracted to modesty.  For example: Now I’m much more attracted to girls in full-length dresses than a girl in ‘Daisy-dukes’.  Obviously, the girl in shorts is not the kind of girl I’d want to raise my children!  She’s wearing clothes I wouldn’t allow my daughter to wear!  To me, that’s not attractive.  It may ‘turn me on’ but it’s not attractive—and there’s a difference!” [2]

Having to fight ungodly impulses may cause many men to just stay away from women who dress or act in any manner that compromises their walk with God, including any such women in Church. And a man who is looking for a wife will likely feel some aversion to a woman who is willing to show off her body for all other men.  Men are not as shallow as some women think, especially men who are striving to be godly!  They greatly prize a woman who keeps her body hidden in respect for herself and others.
 
One of the female writers for COGWA, asked a male college-age friend why he thought modesty was important.  He said:

“Due to the sheer volume and accessibility of these themes and [provocative] images...I feel like I’m bombarded with it almost constantly, and it’s exhausting. Seeing girls in modest states of dress is almost comforting because it’s like a breath of fresh air; like a relief…Girls fail to consider the impact seeing a girl undress[ed] has on a guy. When a guy sees a girl like that, he can never unsee it. When I go to beach [Feast] sites and see all these [girls] in bikinis, it really bothers me…and because it’s like, ‘Come on, you should know better.’” [13]

Immodesty is Embarrassing

Some older men even feel obliged to turn down requests to speak to the teens in their congregation because the young girls dress so provocatively!   Parents need to make sure their teenage daughters are taught how to be modest and—as long as they are living at home—that the parent’s rules are followed!  A minister should never have to correct teenagers on this point!  That is the parents’ job!  (No one said raising children was easy!)  Remember your children are also holy, so see that they dress as becomes holy people!  (I Cor 7:14)

From a minister in CGG (Church of the Great God):

“Many people, especially men, have complained about immodesty in the clothing of some women and girls in the church. They have been embarrassed by such things as plunging necklines that expose the cleavage and exposure of the midriff area, especially the rolls of fat just above hip-hugger pants. My son-in-law works for a restaurant, and he said that he has not found a man yet that finds that attractive in any way. Thin bras that show everything, especially when the room is cold also embarrass them, as well as tight blouses.  Who would come before God dressed like this to worship Him? …Not being able to find something modest to wear is no excuse for buying something immodest and wearing it.”

“Job made a covenant with both his conscience and his eyes. God is the Judge; and we are therefore bound not to look on anything with a lustful or covetous eye, by which our conscience may be defiled, or God dishonored by our thoughts or actions as members of His church. It is hard for men not to look at such things. Women have a responsibility to help us not to look.” [14]

Tempting anyone to sin is a sin itself!  Look how Christ elaborated on what He said in Matthew 18:

“It is impossible but that offences will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come!  It were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.” (Luke 17:1-2)

It is highly unlikely that any woman would become sexually aroused simply by how a man dresses!  But, as the young men in the survey above confirmed, virtually every one of them said they would be tempted to lust if a woman is dressed immodestly! 

And please remember that when you come before God in a worship service, your clothing should be especially modest and not distracting!  If a woman is going to be on a stage—such as for special music—her skirt will appear several inches shorter because the audience is looking up at her.  And do you really think a woman who is dressed immodestly should be teaching our children, playing for hymns, providing special music, signing for the deaf, or any other such service in church? 

Another perspective is from a minister in Church of the Great God: “I cannot help wondering where the husbands in the church are when their wives come to Sabbath services with thin tops and bras, leaving nothing to the imagination of the other men in the congregation. Ladies, if you do not have a husband attending with you, or you are single, please check your clothing by looking in a mirror before you come. Is your blouse too tight and gaping open? When you sit down, are you well covered? Whatever you see in that mirror, we see! Do you fathers monitor your teenagers' clothing?” [14]

Besides sitting in front of a mirror, lean over to see what is revealed if your blouse gapes open.  Look at yourself from the back and sides.  Your bottom and thighs should not be visible through your clothing, nor should they be outlined by tight clothing.  If they are, your clothes are immodest.           
 
We would also add that accessories which bring attention to specific body parts, like fishnet or patterned stockings, platform or overly high heels, body jewelry or ‘bling,’ can also cause men to focus on your body instead of you.  The Living Church of God adds this: “Clothes considered stylish by this world are often lacking in modesty. They are often overly revealing of the female body.  Double entendre slogans on sweatshirts and T-shirts, also, are suggestive and inappropriate.” [15]

And what about swimsuits?  Here is the LCG youth camp’s instructions: Girls must bring a modest one-piece or ‘tankini’ style suit for girls…The camp facility permits no bikini swimsuits for females, with no exceptions. Please make sure you plan accordingly. All swimsuits must be full coverage on the bottoms and tops. [19]         
 
Bikinis are not suitable for any woman of God in public at any time and many Christian camps for teens ban them!  Our standards should be at least as high as a teen camp.

 

Making A Parent’s Job Difficult

But causing men to stumble isn’t the only problem when Godly women dress immodestly.  Good mothers don’t want their teenage sons lusting after girls, nor their daughters dressing like sex objects.  They know how easy it is for men to become sexually aroused and how that powerful urge can cause them to say almost anything to get a girl into bed. And teens and young women are especially vulnerable to flattery and empty promises, not understanding that men can profess all kinds of endearing emotions just to get sex and then never call again.

The teen years are some of the most difficult times for parents who are striving to keep their daughters safe, innocent, and modest.  But how much more difficult is their job if these girls see older women in Church dressing in provocative clothing?!  Women who should know better and should be shining examples!  What a dreadful thing to be the bad example a young girl points to as ‘proof’ that she should also be allowed to wear provocative clothes!  And not only should the older women be setting the right example, they should also be teaching the younger women!  Unfortunately, even little girls as young as eight and nine are getting into racy clothing because the world promotes it so much.  And young mothers are letting them!  Is your example helping or hindering their choices?  

As editor of the pre-teen magazine Cookie, Pilar Guzman writes, “You get this idea that there is a kind of lost innocence, when racy adult fashions are being worn by ever-younger girls. In a world where media marketers seek to introduce adult fashions to younger-and-younger clients, it is more important than ever that mothers, older sisters, teens and adult female friends in God's Church set a good example for the younger girls.”

It can also be difficult for women—even godly women—not to be angry with immodest women and girls for tempting their husbands, boyfriends, or sons to sin, or for setting a bad example for their daughters.  It should be obvious that when a woman dresses or acts immodestly, it is wrong on so many levels!  Paul puts it very plainly:

“Decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother.” (Rom 14:13 ESV)

 

A Light to the World

Being a light to the world definitely includes how we dress!  That includes not following the immodest fashions of the day! 

“Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” (Rom 12:2 HNV)

In his talk to women and girls, a UCG minister, had this to say about women’s clothing:  “Advertisers know that a split-second sexy image can have as great an impact as a longer scene…high slits in skirts are like flashing lights—now you see thigh, now you don't. Also, sheer clothes, loose blouses when a woman leans forward, and sleeveless tops with loose armholes offer titillating peeks of skin and underwear.  Total nudity is less erotic than sexy packaging. A woman in skimpy or tight clothes is more exciting and mysterious because she is tantalizing and teasing to a man…similar to a striptease show.” [12]  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Modest clothing can be very beautiful and stylish!

What a terrible example for any woman professing to be a Christian to be a walking ‘striptease’ show!  Hardly a light to the world!  This minister further clarified: 

“Many psychological factors are involved in how one's dress and appearance affect others, not just the amount of skin showing. A short skirt is more provocative than shorts of the same length because of the obvious possibility of seeing up the skirt. A top with straps is less provocative than a strapless top. Décolletage without showing cleavage is not nearly as erotic as seeing the same neckline with cleavage showing. Outerwear that looks like underwear is risqué.” [12]

 

Some Guidelines for Godly Modesty:

• Tight, form-fitting clothes of any kind should be avoided as should any outfit that reveals the back below the bra line.
• No cleavage should be showing—wear a camisole or an undershirt if necessary. Don’t wear thin tops without a bra.
• Armholes should not reveal the bust or the under-arm area
• Midriff should never show—check when you raise your arms
• Hems on skirts should be below the knees (test them sitting down)
• Slits should not go above the knee (Test when sitting down)
• Skirts & Pants should not hug the hips and thighs
• Shorts should not be form-fitting and must completely cover the bum, including when you bend over
• Jeans should not be form-fitting and should have no tears or slits above the knee
• T-shirts and tops should not be form-fitting and should not have words, bling, or other décor across the chest
• Leggings should never be worn without a long top covering the hips and thighs
• Two piece swimsuits are not acceptable at any time (except tankini type). All swimsuits should cover cleavage and the bum and torso completely
• Lace or patterned stockings should be avoided
• Very high heels or high platform shoes should be avoided
• Overdone hair or makeup should be avoided. Makeup should be minimal and should not completely change your looks (No man wants to marry a woman he doesn’t recognize in the morning!) False eyelashes are just that—false!  Be real!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wear a camisole under a low-cut top. Sew up revealing slits. Choose feminine clothes rather than sexy.

The overall principle is to be modest!  Your clothes, shoes, accessories and hair are just the start.  Modesty also includes your walk, your look, makeup, and what you talk about.  Innuendos, sex talk, sexy flirting and joking are unsuitable for a Godly woman. 

God's people are to ‘come out’ of this world! (Revelation 18:3–4). We’re not to just be more conservative than the world but should always strive to exemplify godly principles, no matter what the world does.  In a sermon about the declining morals of this world, the president of the Living Church of God, Gerald Weston, made the point that not only should we not let our morals slide with the world, but we shouldn’t even stay on a straight line.  Our morals should constantly be on an upward slope aiming towards the perfection of Christ! [17]           
 
The disconnect of a godly woman dressing or acting immodestly is summed up in this quote by Ralph Waldo Emmerson: “What you do speaks so loudly I cannot hear what you are saying.”

If you look or act just like the world, why would anyone suspect you are a Christian? 

“For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord: Walk as children of light.” (Eph 5:8)

As stated in a sermon by a minister in CGG: “It is a Christian duty—a requirement, not a suggestion—that we dress modestly. We have a Christian responsibility to wear modest apparel that begins in the context of our reverential worship and that extends from there to our daily living… God wills that we wear clothes as a matter of decorum and propriety in consideration of others and to avoid temptation that could lead to sinful wrong use… The reason for avoiding indecent or lewd exposure is that this type of exposure of the female body is lust-arousing to the carnal male mind.” [16]

“Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.” Prov 31:10

 

Your Body is a Temple to God

Modesty involves more than clothing. Your demeanor—the way you talk and walk and your body language—all must be modest and pleasing to God which leads to another question from the survey: Could a modestly-dressed girl still be a stumbling block because of her attitude and behavior?  94% of the men said, Yes [2]
 
Here is a comment from a young man, age 18: “A modestly dressed girl can still be a stumbling block when she is moving and acting in ways that make it clear she is not modest at heart.  This can inspire thoughts in my mind that tempt me to sin even though her body is covered.” [2]       
 
Another question in the survey was this: If you could say one thing to your sisters in Christ about modesty, what would it be? 

 One man, age 16 said:  “Please don’t take modesty lightly. As your brother in Christ, I value the relationship I will have with my wife someday.  When I am tempted because of you, I lose a part of myself I’m trying to save for her.  When I’m tempted because of you, I become that much more accepting of the perversions in the world.  When you remain pure and modest, my life is made so much easier!  Instead of watching to ensure I don’t sin, I can focus on you as a person and fellow follower of Christ.  I appreciate modesty more than you’ll ever know!  Please show respect for yourself and me and be modest!” [2]

“Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.  Don't you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, which lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.” (1 Corinthians 6:20 NLT).

This world is held captive by Satan. Don't let the world with its seductive ways lead you down destructive paths! “Glorify God in your body and spirit.” (I Cor 6:20) How? By saving ALL seductiveness, sensuality, and sexuality for marriage when your lovely body will help to enrapture just one special man! (Proverbs 5:19).  There is no greater gift you can give to your husband than your purity—in thought, action, and dress.

“Therefore, brothers and sisters, in view of the mercies of God, I urge you to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God; this is your true worship.” (Rom 12:1 CSB)

"Classy is when a woman has everything  to flaunt but chooses not to show it: [20]

“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” (Prov 31:30)

 

References:

[1]  https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2188191/Ogling-drivers-cause-nearly-million-crashes-year.html

[2] https://gbntv.org/the-truth-about-modesty/ (Most of the survey and many comments have been taken off their website, but we have written permission to use those we found before they disappeared.)

[3]  Christian Modesty and the Public Undressing of America by Jeff Pollard

[4] https://www.ucg.org/sermons/What-Does-God-say-About-Modesty by Randy D’Allesandro

[5] http://www.cjmahaney.com/blog/god-my-heart-and-clothes/ Worldliness: Resisting the Seduction of a Fallen World

[6]  https://www.HWAlibrary.com/cgi-bin/download/viewitem.cgi?PageNo=#Page=3

[7] https://fashionandtextiles.springeropen.com/articles/10.1186/s40691-017-0101-5

[8] https://teens.cogwa.org/blog/Young-Women-Maintaining-Godly-Purity

[9] https://www.orlandosentinel.com/2006/10/06/do-your-clothes-say-hire-me-2/

[10] https://www.chicagotribune.com/2017/04/14/mike-roykos-chicago-voice-memorable-excerpts-from-his-columns/

[11] https://www.tomorrowsworld.org/magazines/2002/july-august/Teaching-Chastity-in-an-Unchaste-World by John   Ogwyn

[12] https://www.ucg.org/united-news/heart-to-heart-talk-with-women-and-teen-girls by Don Hooser

[13] https://members.cogwa.org/godly-women-blog/modesty-is-hardest/ by Vivienne Villaescusa

[14] https://www.cgg.org/index.cfm/library/sermon/id/1606/ modesty-part-two-put-on-righteousness.htm

[15]https://members.lcg.org/lcn/2017/september-october/what-drives-your-decisions

[16]  https://www.cgg.org/index.cfm/library/sermon/id/ 1592/modesty-part-one-moderation-propriety.htm

[17] https://members.lcg.org/sermons/2020-06-27/come-out-world by Gerald Weston ?? (Not sure of

 this link)

[19] Modest Attire: Our Christian Responsibility January/February 2007 Rod McNair LCG

[20] Attributed to Hugo Chavez

Church Organizations:

CGG—Church of the Great God

COGWA—Church of God a Worldwide Association

LCG—Living Church of God

UCG—United Church of God

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In today's world, where the pressure to conform to societal norms is intense, the temptation to be a "secret Christian" or even a secret believer can be strong. We might fear judgment, ridicule, or even persecution if we openly declared ourselves to be believers in the Messiah. However, the call of Christ is clear: we are to be His witnesses to the ends of the earth (Acts 1:8). 

Let's explore why being a secret Christian is not an option and how openly living out our faith can transform our lives and the lives of those around us. 

The Biblical Mandate 

Jesus Himself spoke about the importance of openly professing our faith. 

Matthew 5:14-16 (NKJV) 

"You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. LET your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven." 

This is a powerful reminder that our faith is meant to be visible. Just as a city on a hill cannot be hidden, our lives as Christians should not be hidden either. So, is our believing light shining clearly – or do we hide our faith and life? We should let the light of Christ, the Light of the world, shine naturally through us, drawing others to Him. 

The Impact of Bold Faith 

When we live our faith openly, we do more than just fulfill a commandment. We have the potential to inspire and encourage others. Consider the early Christians who, despite severe persecution, boldly proclaimed the Gospel. Their unwavering faith and courage led to the rapid spread of Christianity throughout the Roman Empire. 

Notice how the early church brethren prayed after the twelve apostles had been threatened before being released (Acts 4:18-24). Here’s part of their prayer: 

Acts 4:29-31 (NKJV): "Now, Lord, look on their threats, and grant to Your servants that with all boldness they may speak Your word, by stretching out Your hand to heal, and that signs and wonders may be done through the name of Your 

holy Servant Jesus." And when they had prayed, the place where they were assembled together was shaken; and they were ALL filled with the Holy Spirit, and they spoke the word of God with boldness." 

After Stephen was martyred, persecution was so strong against the early believers that they fled Jerusalem, except the apostles. What we’re about to read was written about the regular church brethren who were the ones scattered: 

Acts 8:1-2, 4 

“Now Saul was consenting to his death. At that time, a great persecution arose against the church which was at Jerusalem; and they were all scattered throughout the regions of Judea and Samaria, except the apostles. 

4 Therefore, those who were scattered went everywhere preaching the word.” 

Similarly, our open declaration of faith can have a ripple effect. When we share our testimonies, show love and kindness, and live with integrity, we become living examples of God's transformative power. People around us, seeing the difference Jesus Christ makes in our lives, may be drawn to seek Him themselves. 

Matthew 5:16 (NKJV): "LET your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven." 

1 Peter 2:12 (NKJV): "Having your conduct honorable among the Gentiles, that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may, by your good works which they observe, glorify God in the day of visitation." 

2 Corinthians 3:2-3 (NKJV): "You are our epistle written in our hearts, known and read by all men; clearly you are an epistle of Christ, ministered by us, written not with ink but by the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of flesh, that is, of the heart." 

Living out our faith boldly and visibly not only strengthens our own relationship with God but also serves as a powerful testimony to those around us. As we embody the teachings of Christ, we demonstrate the reality of His presence and power in our lives, compelling others to explore and embrace the faith that guides us. 

Overcoming Fear and Opposition 

Fear of rejection or opposition can be a huge barrier to living our faith openly. Yet, the Bible offers numerous examples of individuals who faced these fears and stood firm. The Apostle Paul, for instance, endured imprisonment, beatings, and ridicule, yet he remained steadfast in his mission to preach Christ. 

In 2 Timothy 1:7-8 (NKJV), Paul encourages Timothy and all believers: "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. Therefore, do not be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord, nor of me His prisoner, but share with me in the sufferings for the gospel according to the power of God." 

This should remind us that God equips us with the words, strength, and courage we need to face opposition. Our testimony, even in the face of adversity, is a powerful witness to God's sustaining grace. 

Isaiah 41:10 (NKJV): "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand." 

Joshua 1:9 (NKJV): "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." 

Romans 8:31 (NKJV): "What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?" 

1 Peter 4:14 (NKJV): "If you are reproached for the name of Christ, blessed are you, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests upon you. On their part He is blasphemed, but on your part, He is glorified." 

Matthew 10:28 (NKJV): "And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. But rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell." 

These scriptures also remind us that God's presence and power are greater than any opposition we might face. They encourage us to stand firm in our faith, knowing that God will uphold us and that our steadfastness can inspire others to trust in Him as well. 

Practical Ways to Shine Your Light 

1. Let others know – in various ways - you are a Believer. You believe in Jesus. Share how you went to watch a baptism lately for example. Or when a friend or neighbor tells you of a trial they’re going through or recent medical issue they have, tell them you will pray for them. Those are easy ways to let others know who you are and that you are a Believer without being pushy. Also see point #6. 

1. Share Your Testimony: One of the most personal and impactful ways to share your faith is through your own story. Talk about how our Heavenly Father and his Son Jesus Christ have worked in your life and the difference they have made. 

1. Live with Integrity: Your actions often speak louder than words. Strive to live in a way that reflects Christ's love and teachings. Be honest, kind, and compassionate in all your dealings. 

1. Engage in Service: Show the love of Jesus Christ through acts of service. Volunteer in your community, support charitable causes, and help those in need. Consider also helping Light on the Rock by participating in our outreach programs or contributing your time and resources to our initiatives. Your involvement can make a significant impact in spreading the Gospel and introducing people to our Great God. 

1. Invite others to come visit your church meeting. Tell them they can sit next to you. 

1. Utilize Social Media: In today's digital age, social media is a powerful tool for sharing your faith. Post encouraging scriptures, share inspirational articles, and talk about your faith journey. Remember to share our website, www.lightontherock.org. It is easy to share our blogs and sermons with others, helping to spread the message far and wide. 

1. Be Prepared to Answer Questions: People may be curious about your faith. Be ready to explain what you believe and why, always with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15 (NKJV): "But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear.") If you’re not comfortable answering questions, ask if they mind if you ask a friend to help with the Bible answers. 

Being a secret Christian and hiding in the closet is not an option for those who truly follow the teachings of our Lord Jesus. We must come out of the believer’s closet! Our faith is meant to be a light that shines brightly in a world often filled with darkness. 

By living openly and authentically as Christians, we not only fulfill our calling but also are given a great responsibility to lead others to the hope and salvation found 

in Jesus. Embrace God’s call to shine. Let your life be a testament to the transformative power of Jesus Christ living his life in us. 

By Randy Freeze, host of website “Hope of Israel Worldwide”.

In a world filled with distractions and competing voices, it's easy to lose sight of the timeless truths found in God's Word. Yet, now more than ever, we need to prioritize daily Bible study so we can navigate the complexities of modern life and heed the warnings God has given us. Let's explore why daily Bible study is essential for Christians today, drawing wisdom and guidance from Scripture itself.

Perhaps this could help too: Think of prayer as us talking to God. And think of the Bible -  called the Word of God – as God and Messiah talking to us when we do Bible study! Bible study is one of the ways God speaks to us. When we want to do more Bible study, it shows God we are eager to listen to him speak to us. Before even beginning your Bible study, invite God to speak to you.

Understanding God's Warnings:

Scripture is filled with warnings from God, urging us to turn from sin and follow His ways. In Ezekiel 33:7-9 (NKJV), God speaks to Ezekiel, saying:

"So you, son of man: I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; therefore you shall hear a word from My mouth and warn them for Me. When I say to the wicked, 'O wicked man, you shall surely die!' and you do not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood I will require at your hand. Nevertheless, if you warn the wicked to turn from his way, and he does not turn from his way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered your soul."

We normally think those called to be Watchmen would be prophets, pastors, and speakers, but certainly we all have been called to be God’s lights in the world, letting the light of Christ shine through us. Jesus is the light of the world (John 8:12), and when he comes into us, HIS light shines through us. Let His light in you be strong. Studying his Word helps that connection be strong.

As Believers, we are called to be God’s lights in a darkened world (Matthew 5:14-16; Ephesians 5:8, 14), diligently studying God's Word and sharing His Way, his teachings and even his warnings with others. Daily Bible study enables us to discern God's voice amidst the noise of the world and respond faithfully to His call.

 

Strengthening Our Faith:

In addition to warning us of the consequences of sin, Scripture also serves to strengthen our faith and equip us for the challenges we face.  Read carefully what Paul writes us in 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NKJV):

"All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work."

By immersing ourselves in God's Word daily, we are equipped with the knowledge and wisdom needed to live lives that honor and glorify Him. Through Scripture, we gain insight into His character, His promises, and His will for our lives, empowering us to walk in obedience and trust.

Think of the Bible as God’s bread from heaven, Jesus Christ in print.  And we are to live by every word of God. We know God gave Israel manna in the desert. When were they to gather manna? First thing in the day, every day except Sabbath, before the day got hot and melted the manna. We too should apply the command to “Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness” – and then all the things that occupy us will be taken care of (Matthew 6:33).

So we gather our “manna” – our Bible study – every day, first thing and early in the day as much as possible. That may mean making some changes in our schedule so we can get up early enough to do it. Let’s make Bible study and prayer our top priorities. We make time for whatever we feel is truly important.

Navigating the Modern World:

In today's fast-paced and ever-changing world, daily Bible study provides us with a firm foundation amidst the shifting sands of culture and opinion. God’s word – the Bible -- should be lighting up our path in life.  Psalm 119:105 (NKJV), the psalmist declares:

"Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path."

As we study God's Word each day, we are guided by His truth and wisdom, enabling us to discern right from wrong and make decisions that align with His will. In a world where moral relativism abounds, the Bible serves as our unchanging compass, directing our steps and illuminating the path ahead.

Conclusion:

In conclusion, the urgency of daily Bible study cannot be overstated. In God's Word, we find His warnings, encouragement, and guidance we need to navigate the complexities of modern life and live faithfully as His followers. Let us commit ourselves afresh – without delay or procrastination -- to the discipline of daily Bible study, drawing near to God and allowing His Word to transform our hearts and minds. As we heed His warnings and follow His ways, may we shine as lights in the darkness, pointing others to the hope found in Christ alone.

A talent was not a unit of currency, but a unit of weight. The NIV translates this verse “ten thousand bags of gold,” but it is far more likely that silver would have been the precious metal involved in the transaction, as even ten thousand talents of silver would represent an almost unimaginably large amount.  In fact, ten thousand talents of silver would be too large to have normally been a personal debt.  The word “servant” Matthew uses could refer to a king’s high-ranking servant who had control of massive amounts of money as part of his work.

By contrast, the second servant in the parable who owed the king’s servant money was doubtless a far less powerful individual who had borrowed “one hundred denarii” (KJV “a hundred pennies,” NIV “a hundred silver coins”).  We read in the parable that the servant who owed a huge amount that was forgiven was himself unwilling to forgive the individual who owed him a much smaller debt.

To get a true sense of the relative amounts Jesus spoke of, notice that in another parable –  that of the men working in the vineyard (Matthew 20:1-16) –  Matthew specifically tells us that an acceptable rate of pay for a laboring man was one denarius per day (vs. 1, etc.).  So, the debt of the minor servant who owed the king’s servant 100 denarii was the equivalent of a hundred days pay – some four months of wages calculated on a regular workweek – and certainly not a small amount.

But to get a sense of the debt for which the king’s servant was responsible, we must realize that a “talent” was equal to approximately 6,000 denarii in value, so that debt equaled ten thousand times about six thousand days pay for an average laborer –  some 60 million days or 200 thousand years pay at 300 workdays per year – based on talents of silver, not gold.

So the price of the forgiveness given by the king to his servant in Christ’s parable was an astronomically high one –  far beyond the realm of any possibility of being repaid.  But it is easy to think that this parable was simply teaching that our neighbor’s spiritual debts to us are far less than what we “owe” God as a debt of forgiveness, but while that is true, the parable has greater depth than that.

Clearly, the king in the parable represents God, and the king’s servant represents us as debtors to God through our sin, while the minor servant represents those who are “indebted” to us through sins against us. But we should remember that the amount owed by the minor servant –  a hundred days’ pay –  was not a trivial amount. It is important to realize that Christ was not downplaying the “debts” or sins of others against us –  rather his parable admits that those who sin against us may indeed sin to a substantial degree, leaving us significantly hurt.

But the parable also puts that hurt in perspective by showing that the astronomically high debt we have incurred through our own cumulative sins far outweighs whatever sin may have been committed against us – no matter how bad it was.  As it is given in Christ’s example, the story shows a ratio of one million to one – the sins of others against us represent one millionth of our own sins against God.  That is why Jesus ended his parable by saying that the unmerciful servant was severely punished by the king, and   by saying “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart” (vs. 35).  

Ultimately, however, Jesus’ parable is not about numbers or balance sheets.  Its primary message, of course, is that we ought to forgive as our King has forgiven us. And we should not forget the context in which the parable was given.  Matthew makes it clear that Jesus told this story in response to Peter asking how many times we should forgive those who sin against us: “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king… (Matthew 18:21-23, emphasis added).

According to Jesus’ answer to Peter’s question, the forgiveness given to us is extravagant both in amount and in repetition, and finally it is extravagant in terms of the attitude with which the forgiveness is given.  True forgiveness, Jesus tells us, is so extravagant that it cannot be repaid; it is so extensive that it does not run out in our lifetime; and it is so truly meant from the heart that no price can really be placed on it. ​

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One of the greatest examples of humility that we find in the Gospels – and in the entire Bible, other than in the life of Jesus – is seen in the story of the centurion who implored Jesus to heal his servant. Both Matthew and Luke record this story (Matthew 8:5-13; Luke 7:1-10), and the additional details each one gives paint a picture of a leader of men who was remarkably humble – and more.

Humility

The centurion’s humility is certainly one of the most memorable aspects of the story. As the ranking officer in his unit, he was an important soldier who gave orders to many men.  Yet  this same centurion willingly humbled himself in his request to Christ, declaring “I do not deserve to have you come under my roof … I did not even consider myself worthy to come to you” (Luke 7:6–7). This attitude is all the more remarkable as we know that most Romans looked down on the Jewish people, considering them to be a relatively uncivilized nation. 

The story also shows the humility of Jesus in his willingness to go to the sick rather than having them be brought to him, but the centurion’s humility is what is highlighted. For a Roman officer to humble himself to the degree he did before one of the people he was charged to rule over was almost startling.

Strength

But humility is clearly not the only trait this centurion displayed.  As commander of at least 80 men (see our post “Ten Centurions,” here) he said that “I myself am a man under authority, with soldiers under me. I tell this one, ‘Go,’ and he goes; and that one, ‘Come,’ and he comes. I say to my servant, ‘Do this,’ and he does it” (Matthew 8:9).    Centurions were often battle-hardened individuals who were not chosen for weakness of any kind – rather their strength was often deeply respected by the men they led.  This is an important fact because it shows that the biblical quality of humility so clearly demonstrated by this man is not in any way an expression of weakness. The centurion’s humility was all the more noticeable because of his strength.

Compassion

There is also another quality of this soldier that we should not overlook, and that is his compassion. Clearly, he was concerned for his servant’s welfare, but the sick man was  apparently not an indispensable or key person in his household. Luke tells us, in fact, that the sick man for whom the centurion asked Christ’s help was not an important servant, but simply a lowly slave (doulos). This centurion was obviously concerned for even the least members of his household staff.  

Faith

Perhaps the most remarkable aspect of the story of the humble centurion, however, is the man’s faith.  On hearing the centurion’s request that Jesus simply command that his servant be made well, Jesus responded “Let it be done just as you believed it would” (Matthew 8:13) and Luke adds the further detail that “Jesus … was amazed at him, and turning to the crowd following him, he said, ‘I tell you, I have not found such great faith even in Israel’” (Luke 7:9).  As a result of the soldier’s great faith, his servant was healed at that exact moment (Matthew 8:13). 

The level of detail given in both Matthew and Luke’s accounts of this healing shows how important the story is from a New Testament perspective. While the Gospels could simply have recorded that Jesus healed the servant of a Gentile centurion, they stress that the soldier was a man of strength and compassion and of outstanding humility and faith. These are fitting goals for every soldier of Christ.

(Introductory comment from P Shields: I have been very pleased with the hard work of all the pastors in Kenya. George Owato is the appointed coordinator there. The work he and Francis and others have put into serving the brethren there and helping plan for the coming Feast of Tabernacles is so appreciated. I asked him to write a blog on fulfilling our calling to be Servant Leaders like Christ is, as we prepare for the Kingdom of God. And really, we practice for God’s kingdom by being servant leaders now in this life. So here’s George.)

We know Jesus by so many dozens of titles. But how did he get so many titles? I mean titles like, King of kings, Lord of lords, Master, Teacher, Rabbi, High Priest, Savior, mighty prophet, chief apostle, Chief Shepherd and many more like Lion of Judah, our Rock and our High Tower. However, He lived a humble life and He did not go about broadcasting who He was by always using these titles. Have you ever asked yourself why? Because He was a servant leader. He lived, led and taught His disciples many things – Becoming servant leaders being one of them! Let’s focus on what he said about servant leadership.

Jesus was born to be a King but look at what he taught His disciples:

Mark 10:42-45 But Jesus called them to Himself and said to them, "You know that those who are considered rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. 43 Yet it shall NOT be so among you; but whoever desires to become great among you shall be your servant. 44 And whoever of you desires to be first shall be slave of all. 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many."

Jesus was appointed by God Most High to be the King of Kings but he never acted like one lording it over others, though we call him “Lord”. Isaiah 9:7 says ““For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders…….of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on David’s throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever. The zeal of the LORD Almighty will perform this” (Isaiah 9:7).

His mother Mary was told her son would be “called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever, his kingdom will never end” (Luke 1:31-33).

Jesus clarified when that would happen.

Matthew 25:31 – ““When the Son of Man comes in His glory, and all angels with Him, then He will sit on the throne of His glory.” And yet we don’t see him acting in the way so many leaders today act: lording it over others.

MANY people aspire to be leaders at home, in their communities, in companies, in governmental and non-governmental organizations and, even in the Church BUT very FEW really seek to become leaders like Jesus Christ of Nazareth, Son of the Living God, “Who being in the very nature of God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself of nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death – even death on the cross! Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” (Philippians 2:6-11).

Are we beginning to see what kind of leadership God wants for Jesus’ followers to have? May God Most High birth in us the desire to become Servant Leaders like Jesus, for His glory! Becoming Servant Leaders like Jesus MEANS we must totally surrender our lives to the Lord Jesus Christ and embrace His Servant Leadership model. Frankly we need the same mind that was in Christ Jesus for us to become servant Leaders like he was.

“Let this mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 2:5). Our attitude needs to be the same as that of Christ Jesus – humbling ourselves and taking on a servant’s nature (Philippians 2:5-9). Read those verses again. It is this mind and attitude of Jesus that will transform us to become servant leaders like Jesus – “who did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Mark 10:45).

This mind of Jesus- the SERVANT Mindset will enable us fulfill these scriptures: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, in humility consider others better than ourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others” (Philippians 2:3-4).

This will be possible only if we have the same mindset Jesus has.

Probably very few of us really think that others are better than ourselves. Or think about others’ needs even above our own. So realize that even as we are training to be leaders, it comes by practicing Servant Leadership all the time and everywhere.

Even when Jesus returns, we will find him serving.

Luke 12:37 “Blessed are those servants whom the master, when he comes, will find watching. Assuredly, I say to you that He will gird himself and have them sit down to eat, and will come and serve them.”

We know Christ laid down his life for us when he died on the cross. But do we also think of him laying down his life in daily acts of loving service and helping others? True service is giving up of our time and our life in a daily way, not just in death. For example, after preaching to the multitudes, our model Leader was moved with compassion and so he served them. He prepared a feast for them, as it was late in the day and they were famished and I’m sure Jesus was tired too. But he served their needs ahead of his, anyway. Even on the cross, his thoughts were on being sure his mother would be well provided for by John – though he was racked with pain.

This mind of Christ is a mind filled with and motivated by love- the agape kind of love God has, that will make us also be willing and ready to lay down our lives for others, any others like Christ did, not just our fellow believers. He died for us while we were still sinners. He died for all the world who would accept him. Are we willing to even serve and die for people who are not being so kind to us? Jesus did. He died while we were yet sinners.

But again, laying down our lives is not limited to literally dying, but also in daily acts of service, giving up our time and our lives for others now. Being a true Servant Leader means we’re putting other’s needs ahead of our own. We help - - even when it is so inconvenient to help. This starts at home. Many are willing to go all out for others, but not for our own spouse or family sometimes.

So in becoming Servant Leaders like Jesus we must have his kind of humility. That’s where it starts. We must humble ourselves just as Christ humbled Himself. There’s so much in scripture about humility.

Here are some examples to ponder: when you do a godly act of kind service, do you have to let others know? Our Messiah actually often told people he had just healed to be quiet about it, and not tell everyone (Matthew 8:1-4). But we tend to let others know of what a good person we are and all about our good deeds. When we do that, we are forfeiting our rewards from God! (Matthew 6:1-5). So Servant Leadership starts with our Lord’s humble mindset in whatever capacity we find ourselves – as dad, a mom, boss, pastor, teacher or coach, older brother or sister.

“…humility comes before honor” (Proverbs 15:33). God will raise up the humble eventually, just as Jesus was elevated and honored tremendously after he humbled himself, as we can read in Philippians 2:8-9

“And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. 9 Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow…”

“A man’s pride will bring him low, but a humble spirit will obtain honor” (Proverbs 29:23). “Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud, but humility comes before honor” (Proverbs 18:12). “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble…all of you clothe yourself with humility toward one another…..Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time” (1Peter 5:5-6.

So before God elevates any of us, He has to see that we will be wonderful leaders, serving those he’s given us to work with – just like our King would.

Remember it was the very son of GOD who got up and did the job of the lowliest servant or slave: He washed all the others’ feet, including Judas’ feet, at the last Passover. Do we ever feel too important to do lowly work? Can we help quietly weed a widow’s garden if she needs help? When we feel like having more coffee or getting seconds after dinner, do we ask someone else to get it, or do we get up and get it ourselves and even ask the others if they want anything while we’re up? Men, are we willing to help with the housework, cleaning and tidying up – or is that the wife’s job?

Yes, the wife was to be the man’s “helper” or “help-meet”; “ezer” in Hebrew. But did you know that the Hebrew word there is exactly the same word used for our Creator who is also our “ezer”- our helper? Eliezer means “GOD is my help”! So men, husbands –we can be the ones helping our wives as well. Let’s become known as a wonderful helper, a leader who serves anyone and everyone.

We should be servant leaders at work, in church, with our families, everywhere! At church we help set up and take down the chairs. We might serve as ushers or singing in the choir or helping with the P.A. system. Those who serve in those capacities spend countless hours serving the rest of us. We really don’t need to be “serving” in the more prominent positions like preaching or giving Bible studies. God is checking our hearts and minds and examining our thoughts as we do everything we do. Those he sees are real servant leaders now will be the ones he will trust with high positions later. When we’re faithful in little, God knows we’ll be faithful in much.

When we finally have the humble mind and heart of our own Leader Jesus Christ, we won’t even think about or focus on being promoted or lifted up and exalted. It will come, in God’s good time, when and how He determines. Our real concern for now is not trying to be “in charge” – but in trying to serve the best way possible. We’ll be more concerned with the well-being of those we are serving, and not having to demonstrate we’re “in charge”. God can’t and won’t lift us up to be leaders in the Kingdom until we first learn to humble ourselves and be helpers and servants in every way we can – without putting on a big show and letting everyone know about our serving or how we are “in charge” here. We don’t need to be in the pictures of serving that are being shown everyone.

So humility is KEY to becoming Servant Leaders like Jesus. We must be humble, we must clothe ourselves with humility. “For this is what the high and lofty One says – he who lives forever, whose name is holy: “I live in a high and holy place, but also with him who is contrite and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite” (Isaiah 57:15).

God, who lives in unbelievable splendor – wants to come live in us too, but only if we are lowly in spirit and humble. He really is not comfortable with prideful people.

“And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God” (Micah 6:8).

“…the greatest among you should be like the youngest, and the one who rules like the one who serves” (Luke 22:26).

“Humble yourselves before the Lord and he will lift you up” (James 4:10).

Let’s be humble. Let’s have the mind of Jesus as we find ways to serve – ideally behind the scenes, unnoticed by mankind, but every thought and action is seen by God.

In conclusion, it takes humility and the mind of Jesus – the servant leadership mindset/attitude to become Servant Leaders like Jesus. And it’s something we’re doing all the time. Every day.

God willing, we’ll be able to share more ideas in future on this whole topic of being a Servant Leader like Jesus, wherever we are and wherever we go.

Note from P Shields, host of LOTR: This blog comes from www.TacticalChristianity.org and was written by a close friend, an ordained minister of God, who goes by his pen name of R. Herbert. I recommend you check out his site as it has SO much more than blogs. This article matches well with my sermons on Perfection as well, except he knows how to cut to the chase better than I. Enjoy his article or blog.

“In the land of Uz there lived a man whose name was Job. This man was blameless and upright; he feared God and shunned evil” (Job 1:1).
“…all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23).  

These two scriptures ­­– Job 1:1 and Romans 3:23 – are loved by skeptics as they feel the two verses provide a “perfect” example of biblical contradiction.  How, they ask, could Job be “blameless” (NIV, ESV, etc.) or “perfect” (as translated in the King James Version) –  in other words, sinless –  if, as Paul affirms, all have sinned?

Many Christians realize that when the New Testament uses the word “perfect” (as when Jesus tells his followers to “be perfect” – Matthew 5:48), the Greek word used means “mature” or “complete” (see “Does God Expect You to Be Perfect?” here).  In the Old Testament a similar situation occurs.  The Hebrew word tam translated in Job 1:1 as “blameless” or “perfect” (and again in Job 1:8, 2:3) has several shades of meaning. It comes from a root word meaning to be complete or finished (Genesis 47:18, Deuteronomy 31:24) and in a secondary sense to be morally sound or upright (Job 22:3, Psalm 18:26).  Tam itself can be translated “complete,” “finished,” “blameless,” “innocent,” or “having integrity.” In Proverbs 29:10, for example, the word is used in the phrase “a person of integrity.”

This meaning –  of having moral integrity or “uprightness” –  that lies at the heart of what we are told in Job does not imply perfection as we might think of the word in modern English usage. In fact, the respected Interpreter’s Dictionary of the Bible (Abingdon, 1981) states categorically: “the words which are rendered in English by ‘perfect’ and ‘perfection’ [in the Hebrew Bible] denoted originally something other and less than ideal perfection.” 

So although Job 1:1 records that Job was blameless, and in Job 1:8 and 2:3 God is said to have declared Job to be blameless, the Hebrew word translated “blameless” does not have to mean morally perfect and completely sinless.  This can be seen by the fact the book itself shows Job’s failings.   In 7:21 Job states, “Why do you not pardon my offenses and forgive my sins?” and in 42:6 Job confirms his own sinfulness when he says: “Therefore I despise myself and repent in dust and ashes.”  

When we take these facts into account, it is clear that being “blameless” or “perfect” before God in Job – and elsewhere in the Old Testament – means being morally upright, but it does not have to refer to some kind of sinless perfection.

Putting the scriptures together, then, there is no contradiction between what the Book of Job tells us and what Paul affirms in Romans.  All humans, including Job, have sinned, as Paul stresses; but Job had attained a level of integrity or moral uprightness that God himself acknowledged as being remarkable – just as the Book of Job states. 

Not all of you will understand this--but a lot of you will. My husband and I believe (with all of our might) the principle of tithing. Good times, bad times, it doesn't matter. EVERYTHING belongs to God anyway so we are happy to give back to Him the tiny bit He requests. Deuteronomy 10:14--"Indeed heaven and the highest heavens belong to the Lord your God, also the earth with all that is in it." So we tithe--and God has ALWAYS taken care of us--even in bad times! 

My story involves my handicapped friend. We met 22 years ago when she was impoverished and living in squalor. She had been away from religion for decades and she asked to start attending church with us. I did not mention tithing to her but she found out through sermons. She WANTED to give to God. Her heart was incredibly generous. She was on government disability so at first she could only afford a dollar or two. As the years passed, her checks grew larger. The more she gave back to God, the more physically blessed she became! Doors opened and she was moved into an incredibly beautiful and caring facility that she is in now.

After a few years of knowing me, she asked me to handle her money. (Become her 'Payee'). Every month, when she knew her check had arrived, she would call me up and tell me how much she wanted to send to her favored church. Part of her handicap is mental so she would often ask me to send MUCH more than she could afford--more than her tithe. We would talk and, usually, meet somewhere in the middle. 

These days, she is too far gone to judge wisely so I ASK HER if she wants to give money to God. I make sure she is honored by sending in a token amount. God loves her and respects her widow's mites. Her expenses have gone up substantially so she is more limited.

Here is the point of this story: EVERY TIME SHE GIVES, our God gives her back more than she gave Him! This time it was a letter stating that her next rent and care payment (for July) is less than it was formerly quoted. She had paid her "tithe" and the differences in the rent cost leaves her with more money than what she gave to God! He paid her back plus some!

I have proven to myself that tithing is a "living principle". God pleads with humanity to test Him In Malachi 3:10 "Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in my house, and prove me now herewith, if I will not open you the windows of heaven and pour you out a blessing, that there will not be room enough to receive it."

He doesn't say in this verse to "Make a lifetime commitment to do this." He says to TEST Him to see if He's telling the truth!

I love my friend. I'm glad she decided to try God out!

Note from the host PShields: Much of this blog below comes from a writing I loved from Evelyn Ortiz Cabigting in the Philippines with just a few edits. I hope you enjoy it and that it makes you think as much as it did me. Here’s what she writes:

I believe we are in the last generation before the return of Christ. If so, it will be the most exciting time on earth and also the most volatile time on earth.

Six thousand years ago Adam and Eve walked the earth. They – and every human since then, have planted seeds of their actions and lives. With every human since then also planting seed, there’s like a multiplying effect. Can it be that every seed planted from then until now – both good seed and evil seed – will be reaped in abundance in this last generation?

Consider this: The evil that has been sown in mankind will reach its culmination in the “Man of Sin” (2 Thessalonians 2:3).  But conversely, the good that has been sown will also reach its fullness in this generation in the form of Christ in us in all his fullness. [You may wish to check out the sermon on this website “God’s Perfection for us – God’s Way” – 2 part].

Colossians 1:25-28

“to fulfill the word of God, 26 the mystery which has been hidden from ages and from generations, but now has been revealed to His saints. 27 To them God willed to make known what are the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles: which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. 28 Him we preach, warning every man and teaching every man in all wisdom, that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus. “

Both good and evil are maturing together and are shaping up for the final clash. Satan will even attack God’s throne in heaven (Revelation 12). Satan will be cast back down to earth, but then he will empower the diabolic Beast power and False Prophet. But we’ve read the end of God’s book – and so we know how it ends: God wins. We know the children of God will possess the earth and we will experience the reign of Jesus Christ on this literal earth.

 

You have been born in this hour, this time and place, the greatest hour, the greatest climax of all world events in history! Be excited about it. Your children’s children will ask you someday what it was like in 2022 or 2030.  You’re living and making history.  It reminds me of what Mordecai said to Esther and really says to us in Esther 4:12b—“Yet who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?"

A time like this is NOT a time for God’s children to get distracted or lose heart. It’s the time to seek God more diligently than ever before, and he will be found of you. It’s the time to seek to come to know Jesus as never before. Spend your time on these things and cut out time wasters. We have no time to waste.

History is “HIS story” which will culminate in this world coming under the complete rule and control of our Lord Jesus Christ. We preach the gospel of the kingdom of God and the good news of Jesus Christ -- a gospel of peace, of salvation, the gospel of the grace of God. But in the end, it’s the good news of the complete rule and leadership of the Lord Jesus as he puts down all evil, all rebellion and Satan is put away and is no longer the god of this world.

All of this could happen in the lifetime of most of us, I believe – perhaps even in the coming years, within this next decade.

The good news of the kingdom is the good news of the TRUE new world order which Yeshua/Jesus will usher in – and the age of the literal kingdom of God on earth. It’s the gospel of hope and expectancy of a new world of peace with no more war, no more famine, no more bloodshed. It will be a world where nature and mankind will dwell together harmoniously.

It’s the good news about the KING of that new kingdom – Jesus the Son of God and everything he has done for us. He is the Lamb of God, our Passover Lamb. HE is the Door and the Way into Father’s kingdom, which Father in heaven grants and shares with Jesus and to us as co-heirs. Jesus – will come as King of kings, Lord of lords, the Lion of Judah, the Prince of Peace and you are being called to be His Bride with him! How exciting that is for those who have eyes to see and ears to hear.

It’s the gospel of being born again with our high calling and destiny to usher in Christ’s brand new world where evil, sickness and poverty are forever banished.

THIS is what we must be focused on and be getting very excited about! It will seem to you many times in the next few years that evil is winning, but don’t believe it. God – and good – will prevail. And you have been called to be a part of that winning family of God! We’ve been called to be zealous, to fix our gaze upon Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith and to be holy for God’s use. Introduce more and more people to their Savior. Disciple the nations.

The fields are ripening for that massive harvest. Get ready for the greatest harvest of souls the world has ever seen. Revelation 7 speaks of a great innumerable multitude who will come to salvation out of the Great Tribulation. They are pictured as having washed their robes in the blood of the Lamb. My point is – there are so many of them that they’re impossible to count or estimate. Yes, the greatest harvest of souls anyone has ever seen will happen relatively soon. Your personal life, your example, your sharing of the good news is undoubtedly planting seed in people’s lives that will spring up much later, though we don’t see all that growth yet.

This is not a time to be sidetracked, sidelined or to lose heart. Those who endure to the end will be saved. You will be tempted to lose interest and drop away from the select Body of Christ. DON’T listen to those temptations. Become more zealous for God than you ever have been before. Those with Christ are described as the “Called, chosen AND faithful” (Revelation 17:14).

Get ready for the greatest harvest of souls ever! 

BE there for the most exciting final generation years just ahead. Be sure you’re part of the right team and part of God’s family and Household and the Bride of Christ. Never ever forget who you are – and who Jesus Christ and our Father are.

Shalom and good day!!!  And praise God.

He was driving behind me, impatiently honking because I hadn’t immediately made a right turn when he thought the way was clear.  What he didn’t know was that there was a little old lady crossing right in front of me.  When he honked the second time, I looked in my mirror and told him he was an ‘Idiot’!  Of course he couldn’t hear me and eventually saw the pedestrian, so likely realized that, yes, he had been an idiot.  But that doesn’t excuse me for calling him names, I know.  

Our day-to-day interaction with people is going to result in times of annoyance, frustration and anger.  Road rage is rampant and sometimes escalates into horrible accidents and even deaths from something as simple as someone not making a move fast enough for another driver’s agenda.  The news is filled with murders committed in moments of anger and frustration.  Strangers and family alike may find fault with us over many of our ‘mistakes’—real or imagined—and say or do nasty things they may later regret. 

How we react at that very moment is all-important!  Letting anyone else’s wrong actions cause us to react in kind, is certainly not the Christian way!  But stopping ourselves from immediate anger, self-justification and a nasty retort, is not easy!  However, there is a way of thinking that might help!  When you can feel that someone’s behavior is causing your ire to rise, say to yourself, “He will one day know just who I am!”  After all, those in the world have no idea that we—the Firstfruits—will one day be servant-rulers over them.  And not only will we then be leaders to them as Spirit beings and Christ’s Bride, but God makes it clear that He will require an answer of them for ‘every idle word’!  

"But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment.” (Matthew 12:36) 

So, we could feel very smug, because the day is coming when every single person on earth will know Christ and His Bride.  However, being smug and complacent because of our soon-to-be exalted position is not at all why we should remind ourselves of who we are!  When the rude, impatient, angry, backstabbing, foul-mouthed men and women in this evil world have their eyes opened in the Kingdom and finally realize who they were dealing with in this life, what will they remember about us?!  Are we showing them a Christ-like response now that they will one day look back on with respect?  Or are we acting just like them and proving time and again that we have no control over our anger and annoyance?  And don’t forget, we are being judged now! (I Peter 4:17) 

Called Now to Set a Godly Example 

When those we interact with in this life meet us in the next, we want them to recognize that our light was shining brightly because, either we did not even answer—as Christ often did not—or responded with kindness and patience.  We don’t want their first thought to be: “Fine Christian you were!  You gave as good as you got!  And you knew all along exactly who you were!”   

How much better to hear them say, “You were always so patient and kind, so uplifting and encouraging.  I secretly admired you and wanted to be just like you and now I understand how you were able to always be that way because you never forgot that you were the Bride of Christ!  It all makes sense now!  Wow!  Well done!” 

To hear these words from Christ Himself, “Well done thou good and faithful servant,” we must AT ALL TIMES remember who we are.  (Matt 25:21) 

Christ said many times, “My kingdom is not of this world” (John 18:36).  Neither is ours!  We must never forget who we are and where we are headed—for all eternity!  Many of the very people who today are irritating, obscene, foolish, hard-hearted, mean and evil, will one day be like our own children to us!  We need to rise above the hatred and stupidity of this world and act on our future.  NOW is our time to shine and show the world what the coming Bride of Christ will be like.   

Christ said to a young man who wanted to take care of his father and mother, instead of following Him, “Let the dead bury the dead.”  It sounds rather harsh until you realize that—except for the Elect, who have eternity now dwelling within them—every person on earth is potentially dead forever! And are presently dead, spiritually. Those with God’s Holy Spirit are the only truly ‘alive’ people on earth!  Look at these amazing statements: 

"Most assuredly, I say to you, he who hears My word and believes in Him who sent Me has everlasting life, and shall not come into judgment, but has passed from death into life.”  (John 5:24) 

“When you were dead in your transgressions and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He made you alive together with Him, having forgiven us all our transgressions…” (Colossians 2:13) 

The debt incurred from sin is not just physical death but eternal death, which is why God told Adam and Eve that the moment they sinned, they would die.  While their physical death was not imminent, their Spiritual death was immediate.  Every person has sinned and is therefore facing eternal damnation, which is why Christ had to give His life as a ransom for all.   

Those who follow Him are no longer facing eternal damnation.  The rest of the world still IS!  We were once in the same category as the world, as Paul told the Ephesians: “And you weredead in your trespasses and sins…” (Ephesians 2:1)  We were dead, as the world is now ‘dead’ but are now very much alive through God’s eternal Spirit! 

We know what’s ahead, we know we are the Elect, we know we are already God’s very children (I John 3:2) and the world doesn’t have any idea of our exalted eternal position.  We should always be in awe of the incredible honor of being chosen now!  And not because of anything we have done or will do, but because God, in His mercy, has picked us—for whatever His reasons are.  Unlike the world, the devil has no power over us (unless we allow it). (James 4:7), while the world has little power to resist him (John 8:55).  We have knowledge, understanding, the ear of God and His power at our fingertips, while the world flounders in a morass of religious and pagan nonsense and will die in their ignorance.  So how much better should we behave than those who have no understanding of God’s great plan? 

“Since all these things are thus to be dissolved, what sort of people ought you to be in lives of holiness and godliness waiting for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be set on fire and dissolved, and the heavenly bodies will melt as they burn!” (2 Peter 3:11-12 ESV) 

Whenever you come across nasty, rude, impatient, snide, sarcastic, hateful, vindictive, evil people, remember who you are—a representative of God’s Family!  Act as you want them to remember you! Let’s show by our actions that we are, and live like, talk like true children of the Highest.  

WILL I, TOO, BE BEAUTIFUL?

Psalms 149:4 “…He will beautify the humble with salvation.”

I read this in my morning readings—another verse that jumped off the page at me from the book of Psalms.  (I love the book of Psalms!)   Let me tell you what I think it might mean—in part.  But first I think it will be fun to share some descriptions of Jesus Christ (the Lamb, the Word, the Lord…) in His eternal form:

Revelation 1:13-15 “and in the midst of the seven lampstands One like the son of Man, clothed with a garment down to the feet and girded about the chest with a golden band. His head and His hair were white like wool, as white as snow, and His eyes like a flame of fire.  His feet were like fine brass, as if refined in a furnace and His voice as the sound of many waters.”

Our Lord is pictured here as a figure of unimaginable power (and with bright white hair)!

 Continuing in verse 16” …His countenance was like the sun shining in its strength.”

Because He radiates such power, the author here (John) couldn’t even stare directly at Him for too long even in his dream state (or “in the spirit” as he calls it Rev. 1:10) or whatever experience God was having him go through so he could record this book for humanity— The Revelation of Jesus Christ (Revelation 1:1).

Jesus Christ (who was the Lord and the Word of the Old Testament) loved beauty!  He didn’t make himself as attractive as the world’s most recognized models when he came in human form but there was a good reason for this.  He wasn’t trying to attract attention to himself in his physical form.  He came to teach us about His Father (also our Father). 

John 17 (whole chapter) is Jesus’ prayer to God the Father about how he came to accomplish this.  He hid himself from public and religious authorities several times during his ministry so that he would not be arrested and crucified before his preassigned three- and one-half year work was finished.  If He had been too attractive, He would have stood out in a crowd.

Yet while in physical, human form, Jesus spoke of the beauties of His creation itself.  He talked about the beauty of the lilies and how gorgeous were some of the birds of the air.  Ironically, He included this in a promise to us to care for us (while on this earth) in a similar fashion as we practice living in faith.  Luke 12:27 “Consider the lilies, how they grow; they neither toil nor spin; and yet I say to you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.” 

Jesus also loved quality, attractive clothing to the degree that the soldiers at the stake where he was crucified bartered over which one of them would take home his coat.  (A side note—this was also prophesied in Psalms 22:18 “They divide my garments among them, and for my clothing they cast lots.”)

These are but a few of the scriptures that can be found speaking of the beauty of God.  As quoted at the start, we too will be given his beauty. (If we remain humble.)

This EXCITES ME!  I am a woman, so my desire to be beautiful comes naturally in my human form!  I truly appreciate the natural beauty which comparatively few people on this planet have inherited. Biblical history also records some MEN ALSO who had handsome and masculine features.  These traits became part of why they were selected for certain duties. 

Daniel was one of these:

Daniel 1: 4-6 “young men in whom there was no blemish, but good looking . . . who had the ability to serve in the king’s palace . . .Now from among those of the sons of Judah were Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azzzariah, Abed-Nego.”

I remember a trip to Switzerland that my husband and I took a few years ago.  I wonder why someone didn’t volunteer to tape my mouth shut because it was open much too OFTEN when viewing the stunning vistas that were beyond anything I had ever seen in a photo or on film!  We’ve all seen animals (or, at least photos of animals) that left us aghast at such beauty that we could hardly turn our eyes away.

 Someday, our God (our loving Creator) is planning to share that genetic beauty with me!!!  Someday I get to share in (Look like Him!) “the beauty of the Lord”!  The time is coming when “we shall see him as he is, for we shall be like him” (1 John 3:2).  Psalms 27:4 “One thing I have desired of the Lord, that I will seek:  That I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, To behold the beauty of the Lord, And to inquire in His temple.”

Absalom is argued by some scholars to be the most handsome man in the Bible.  He was the son of King David.  2 Samuel 14:25 says in all Israel there was nobody as handsome as he.

See 2 Samuel 14:25 “Now in all of Israel there was no one who was praised as much as Absalom for his good looks.  From the sole of his foot to the crown of his head there was no blemish in him.”

Among the beautiful women of scripture is Sarah, who was so beautiful that her husband, Abraham feared they might kill him so the king could steal her to become a wife of the king as he passed through that ruler’s land.  In fact, this happened on two different occasions by two different kings!

Genesis 12:10-15 “Now there was a famine in the land, and Abram went down to Egypt to sojourn there…And it came to pass when he was close to entering Egypt, that he said to Sarai, his wife, ‘Indeed I know that you are a woman of beautiful countenance.  Therefore it will happen when the Egyptians see you, that they will say, ‘This is his wife’; and they will kill me, but they will let you live…”  This event happened and she was taken to Pharaoh.  You will enjoy reading this chapter in your Bible.

Later another king, Abimelech, also tried to steal Sarah from Abraham because of her great beauty.  (She was called Sarah by this time.)  Read Genesis 20:1-18. 

And I must add this: God sees his obedient and zealous children and servants as already beautiful in spirit. He even speaks in Romans 10:15 and Isaiah 52:7 of the beautiful feet of those who bring good tidings, the good news. Beautiful feet. We want beautiful feet, as God sees beautiful feet.

God also tells us that even right now he sees the hearts of those who have a meek and quiet spirit as being beautiful in heart, right now. In our present life, our God is more impressed with those beautiful in heart more than those in expensive clothing, fancy hairdos and fine jewelry.

1 Peter 3:3-4  “Do not let your adornment be merely outward — arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel —  4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.”

Having said that, I do believe that someday, our God (our loving Creator) is planning to share HIS PERFECT genetic beauty with me!  And not just me—but with all His Spirit born children! God loves living amid beautiful things.  All things created by Him reflect His glory! God loves variety, evident as we look over his creation. So we will all be beautiful, but in many different ways. We won’t all look the same.

Psalms 27:4 “One thing I have desired of the Lord, that I will seek:  That I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, To behold the beauty of the Lord, And to inquire in His Temple.”

MAY GOD SPEED THAT DAY!

Walking around our neighborhood, I see small creches – depictions of the birth of the Christ child with Mary and Joseph and baby Jesus and maybe a few sheep or cows nearby. Sometimes depictions of shepherds or kings kneeling are also shown. So Mary and child and Joseph are clearly there. 

But how do YOU feel about Mary? If you are Catholic, you adore her. But all of you reading this who are not Catholic, how do YOU feel about her? Do you ever speak of her? Does your pastor ever give a sermon about her? And should he?

I am writing on this because I know there’s a proclivity among conservative  7^th day sabbath keepers and Hebrew roots folks to just dismiss Mary. Check your own heart on this. After all, she’s been idolized by the world’s largest Christian faction, the Catholics. You may know  -- or not  -- about the Catholic doctrines of the Immaculate Conception, the Assumption of Mary to heaven, and that Catholics call her “the Queen of Heaven” (compare Jeremiah 44) and on and on. There are also many reported visions of Mary by young girls and others.

My point is, for many sabbath keeping folks, there’s a bias against having anything to do with Mary. Again, am I right? Check your own heart.

But folks, we’re talking about the very special, specific young woman God Most High in heaven personally selected to be the woman to be the mother of his own and only son. He picked Mary to give birth to his son and raise him in a good home, good environment and do all they could to help him not ever sin. We’re talking about a woman to whom God sent his special messenger angel Gabriel with this stunning news. And we’re talking about a very humble and gracious woman – and therefore one God could magnify and bring out her greatness. I think it’s time we honor this great woman and learn from her life.

So I have a new sermon about Mary. I hope you’ll watch the video or hear it and review the notes. It’s time we stopped dismissing this great woman, if we do. I personally believe her to be the greatest of all the women of the Bible and in the top 5 or top 10 of all the people in the Bible – men or women! Mary has a lot to teach us by her life example of humility, grace, submission to God and obedience, and so I hope you enjoy the message.

Imagine realizing as you listen to Gabriel, God’s special messenger angel tell you that you’ve been hand-picked by God himself to carry His very son to term  -- conceived of the Holy Spirit – and what all that could entail. She must have thought of the prophecy in Genesis 3:15 where God said this to Satan the serpent after Satan deceived Eve into eating the forbidden fruit, and who then urged her husband to also eat of it, though Adam was not deceived:

Genesis 3:15 -- “And I will put enmity between you and the woman,  And between your seed and her Seed; He shall bruise your head, And you shall bruise His heel."

This was a prophecy about the Messiah and Jews understood that. Mary would have understood that. That future seed of Eve would vanquish Satan. As one song says, “the child that you’ve delivered, will soon deliver you.”  At what point did it really sink in to Mary that she was giving birth to the Deliverer of humanity, and her OWN Deliverer!? In my teaching I discuss how Mary herself needed to be delivered. Imagine the thoughts racing through Mary’s mind to realize it was to be HER seed, HER son, to face combat with Satan.

I don’t know if Mary immediately connected Psalm 22 and Isaiah 53 prophecies – to her son. But surely after the resurrection she must have. She knew, her son would be suffering a great deal while fulfilling this calling.

It wasn’t long before she was realizing SHE was the one hand-picked to fulfill the prophecy of a VIRGIN conceiving and bearing a son who was going to be “GOD with us” – or Immanuel.

Isaiah 7:14 -- “Therefore the Lord Himself will give you a sign: Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a Son, and shall call His name Immanuel.”

The angel Gabriel told her that the father of this, her first child, would be God himself, and the Holy Spirit would be the means, the seed by which she would become pregnant. The Father of her baby to come, was God himself. The thoughts must have been overwhelming.

So Mary was very, very special. In my sermon, I make plain that we definitely should not ignore her. But on the other hand, what does scripture say about worshiping Mary or praying to her? All that and more is in the sermon.

In the popular song “Mary, did you know?” – I found the lyrics to be surprisingly praising of Christ. It was not about Christmas, but lauding Yeshua! I don’t keep Christmas. Christ was not born on December 25, and Christmas today is rarely even about Jesus anymore. I have many sermons and blogs about why I don’t keep Christmas.

But I do love and worship my Savior, God’s son, Mary’s son. I’m so glad God did send him to us to save us all from our sins. The song “Mary did you know” praises Jesus. It’s not really about Mary but asking her if she realized just how GREAT her son was going to be! Here is part of the lyrics.

“Did  you know that your baby boy has come to make you new?

This child that you’ve delivered, will soon deliver you… 

Mary did you know that your baby boy is Lord of all creation?

Did you know that your baby boy will one day rule the nations?

Did you know that your baby boy is heaven’s perfect Lamb?

This sleeping child you’re holding …is the great I Am?”

Nothing wrong with those lyrics at all. Mary was very special to be the one hand-picked to raise such a child.

In the sermon I also discuss – was she immaculately conceived? What does the Bible say about that? Was she assumed body and soul to heaven? All that and more.

I hope you’ll enjoy the sermon.